To the bolded, forgive me, but it just seemed a little nitpicky on Howse when she just mirrors the average of what I see posted even here. But I do see your point about preferring that people trim. Dunno...all races...I see success with trims and without.
Guitarhero I am not nitpicking. I'm being honest. I bought Cathy's book for the same reason I downloaded Brenda's report. Both women seemed to know what it's like to have hair that stops at about 5 inches. They weren't those special people I used to see who were just born with long hair. But they were "normal like me" yet seemed to have found the magic portion that grows long hair. But of course one might be impressed by a fountain until one sees a natural waterfall, which is precisely what happened when I joined LHCF. I got to see hair like
Supergirl's to name one person and dreamed of having the same. What's more, I was excited to find that in a place where long hair abounds, Cathy's regimen was used to an extent and I dreamed of getting the best hair ever just like the heads of hair I found here. But instead I went from having thick ends like @
Supergirl to having thin ones like Cathy. And a setback does make you open your eyes to stuff you'd missed. I mean, how many times do people join the forum and suddenly things they took for granted stand out to them and they start seeking solutions they never knew were needed? So why is it so hard to imagine me no longer being impressed.
Do you know who led me to LHCF?
Sherrylove. I was browsing the Web and happened upon a photo of her hair and was blown away by how long her it was. Somehow that sighting linked me to LHCF and for that whole day, I stalked her posts. I had to have what she was having! But do you know who became my shero once I joined LHCF, not Sherrylove, but
Adrienne0914 Her hair wasn't as long as Sherrylove's nor did it bling like Sherrylove's but it was full and just gorgeous and she was another "normal human" who used to have short hair. It was so clear to me why Adrienne's hair was at that time the image of LHCF and on our homepage banner. (Yes before we had those cartoon heads, we had a real photo of a gorgeous head of hair to represent the Long Hair Care Forum!) Later I discovered there were natural type 4 folks on the forum
and they then became my gurus: Den1, @
Mufasa, @
Daughter, @
AFashionSlave...to name a few. And if you looked at all their heads of hair, it was fullness galore.
So I am not nitpicking. I do give credit where it's due and Cathy's ends are not worthy. Just like you'll never see me lie to someone and tell her that her hair looks drool-worthy if the ends aren't that hawt. I do compliment progress but I won't be gushing and making a song and dance about it. Now if we look at non-trimming Charz's hair, we see ends that I consider worthy of my kudos. And if @
Charz can keep ends like that w/o following a trimming regimen, I'm sorry but Cathy gets no pass, especially when she's supposed to be this guru on haircare who's done extensive research in over 12 years.
To the bold, I do agree, which is why I started a thread on people who don't trim to share their success stories in case there are those who could get some inspiration if trimming isn't their thang. But like with just about everything, some can get away with it and some can't. We just have to find out to which group we belong and adapt accordingly depending on what our goals are.
So yeah, just being honest. For example, this girl's long hair (below) doesn't impress me at all. It actually grosses me out and makes me think of a rat's tail. And no Cathy's is
nowhere near looking this nasty; compared to her, Cathy's hair is divine. But different strokes for different folks. Before finding Brenda, Wanakee, LHCF though, who knows, I might've been uber jealous of this chick's hair because I didn't know better.