[FONT="]Through the Lens of the Word of God - [/FONT][FONT="]What do you Look Like?[/FONT]
[FONT="]1. [/FONT][FONT="] Eyebrows – Attitude[/FONT]
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[/FONT] [FONT="]Patient[/FONT]
[FONT="]Kind[/FONT]
[FONT="]Rude[/FONT]
[FONT="]Quick-tempered[/FONT]
[FONT="]Loving[/FONT]
[FONT="]Joyful[/FONT]
[FONT="]Gentle[/FONT]
[FONT="]Quarrelsome[/FONT]
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[/FONT] 1 Corinthians 13:4-6 - Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
[FONT="]Galatians 5:22-23 - [/FONT][FONT="]But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.[/FONT]
[FONT="]Proverbs 21:19 - [/FONT][FONT="]Better to live on a corner of the roof than to share a house with a quarrelsome wife.[/FONT]
[FONT="]2. [/FONT][FONT="]Eyes - Gentle and Quiet Spirit[/FONT]
[FONT="]1 Peter 3:1-5[/FONT]
Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear— but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious. For this is how the holy women who hoped in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own husbands,
John Piper-
The deepest root of Christian womanhood mentioned in this text is hope in God. “Holy women who
[FONT="]hoped in God[/FONT].” A Christian woman does not put her hope in her husband, or in getting a husband. She does not put her hope in her looks. She puts her hope in the promises of God. She is described in
Proverbs 31:25: “Strength and dignity are her clothing, and she laughs at the time to come.” She laughs at everything the future will bring and might bring, because she hopes in God. She looks away from the troubles and miseries and obstacles of life that seem to make the future bleak, and she focuses her attention on the sovereign power and love of God who rules in heaven and does on earth whatever he pleases…
…And he is specific in verse 4. When a woman puts her hope in God and not her husband and not in her looks, and when she overcomes fear by the promises of God, this will have an effect on her heart: It will give her an inner tranquility. That’s what Peter means in verse 4 by “the imperishable beauty of a
[FONT="]gentle and quiet spirit[/FONT], which in God’s sight is very precious.”
http://www.desiringgod.org/ResourceLibrary/Sermons/ByDate/2007/2088_The_Beautiful_Faith_of_Fearless_Submission/
Nancy Leigh DeMoss-
[FONT="]Meekness is calm confidence, settled assurance, and rest of the soul. It is the tranquil stillness of a heart that is at rest in Christ. It is the place of peace. Meekness springs from a heart of humility, radiating the fragrance of Christ.[/FONT]
[FONT="]The meek will react to circumstances with peaceful trust …
(Isaiah 26:3–4)[/FONT]
Isaiah 26:3-4 - You will keep in perfect peace him whose mind is steadfast, because he trusts in you. Trust in the LORD forever, for the LORD, the LORD, is the Rock eternal.
http://www.reviveourhearts.com/downloads/index.php?id=10236
[FONT="]3. [/FONT][FONT="]Nose-P[/FONT][FONT="]ride/Humility[/FONT]
Pride–noun
1. a high or inordinate opinion of one's own dignity, importance, merit, or superiority, whether as cherished in the mind or as displayed in bearing, conduct, etc.
2. the state or feeling of being proud.
3. a becoming or dignified sense of what is due to oneself or one's position or character;
self-respect; self-esteem.
Philippians 2:3 - Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves.
Luke 17:10 - So you also, when you have done everything you were told to do, should say, "We are unworthy servants; we have only done our duty."
Psalm 10:4 - In the pride of his face the wicked does not seek him; all his thoughts are, "
There is no God."
Ezekiel 28:17 (talking about Satan) Your heart became proud on account of your beauty, and you corrupted your wisdom because of your splendor. So I threw you to the earth; I made a spectacle of you before kings.
4. Mouth – Words
[FONT="]1 Timothy 3:11 - [/FONT]In the same way, their wives are to be women worthy of respect, not
malicious talkers but
temperate and
trustworthy in everything.
Proverbs 16:21 - The wise in heart are called
discerning, and
pleasant words promote instruction.
Proverbs 16:24 -
Pleasant words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.
Psalm 37:30[FONT="] - [/FONT]The mouth of the righteous utters
wisdom, and his tongue speaks
justice.
Proverbs 15:1 - A
gentle answer turns away wrath, but a
harsh word stirs up anger.
Romans 1:29-30 - They have become filled with every kind of
wickedness, evil, greed and depravity. They are full of envy, murder, strife, deceit and malice. They are
gossips,
slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant and boastful
Proverbs 11:22 - Like a gold ring in a pig's snout is a beautiful woman who shows no discretion.
James 3:9-10 - With it
[the tongue] we
bless our Lord and Father, and with it we
curse people who are made in the likeness of God.
10From the same mouth comes blessing and cursing. My brothers, these things ought not to be so
[FONT="]5. [/FONT][FONT="]Ears – Teachability (accepts instruction) [/FONT]
[FONT="]James 1:19-[/FONT][FONT="]21 - [/FONT][FONT="]Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person [/FONT][FONT="]be quick to hear[/FONT][FONT="], slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God. Therefore put away all filthiness and rampant wickedness and [/FONT][FONT="]receive with meekness the implanted word,[/FONT][FONT="] which is able to save your souls.[/FONT]
Proverbs 19:20 -
Listen to advice and accept instruction, and in the end you will be wise.
Proverbs 18:15 -
The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge; the ears of the wise seek it out.
Proverbs 22:17 - Pay attention and listen to the sayings of the wise; apply your heart to what I teach,
Proverbs 25:12 - Like an earring of gold or an ornament of fine gold is a wise man's rebuke to a listening ear.