Innocent_Kiss
Well-Known Member
Well, my two and a half relationship has recently come to an end, and I am SO PROUD of myself. So many times I tried parting ways. Everyone would tell me "yea right" when I turned to them for encouragement. I prayed and asked God for strength, and finally, I DID IT! *WOOT WOOT*
So, this is what I took away from it:
- The absolute only person that I can change in any relationship, is me. It is not my responsibility to grow any one up, or mold them into the person I want them to be.
- I am responsible for my own happiness; from that, here's my new found philosophy: "No one can make you happy but you, and to expect otherwise is to create a dependency that disempowers you." -Ebonie Nicole Flynn ...I'd allowed my ex to take me from extreme highs to the lows of lows. I used to complain that "he made me feel this way" until it came to me, like an epiphany (LOL! Thats my song) and I realized I gave him that power.
- That relationship forced me to face issues in my childhood that I tried subconsciously forgetting. I am so thankful for that because it has been a stepping stone to healing.
- If he'll hit you once, he'll do it again - and if a man can bring himself to do it once, there's a host of things he's capable of and willing to do to you.
- If a man makes you so upset to the point that you want to hit HIM, then you shouldn't be there.
- Love doesn't hurt.
Yes, I'm excited! So, PLEASE EXCUSE ME! I feel like a burden has been lifted from my shoulders. *doing the moonwalk*
So, this is what I took away from it:
- The absolute only person that I can change in any relationship, is me. It is not my responsibility to grow any one up, or mold them into the person I want them to be.
- I am responsible for my own happiness; from that, here's my new found philosophy: "No one can make you happy but you, and to expect otherwise is to create a dependency that disempowers you." -Ebonie Nicole Flynn ...I'd allowed my ex to take me from extreme highs to the lows of lows. I used to complain that "he made me feel this way" until it came to me, like an epiphany (LOL! Thats my song) and I realized I gave him that power.
- That relationship forced me to face issues in my childhood that I tried subconsciously forgetting. I am so thankful for that because it has been a stepping stone to healing.
- If he'll hit you once, he'll do it again - and if a man can bring himself to do it once, there's a host of things he's capable of and willing to do to you.
- If a man makes you so upset to the point that you want to hit HIM, then you shouldn't be there.
- Love doesn't hurt.
Yes, I'm excited! So, PLEASE EXCUSE ME! I feel like a burden has been lifted from my shoulders. *doing the moonwalk*