What Did Karma Do to Him?

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diadall

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I am thinking about two men that were in my life that did me so wrong. Everyone says karma will take care of them.

So, what did karma do to him?
 
I dont believe in karma. I do believe in consequences to actions. Even then, sometimes people get away with doing bad things. That's why we should never focus on the other person.

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When I think of Karma, I don't necessarily think of bad things. There is good karma imo and bad. I look at it as whatever energy you put out will come back in some shape or form. That is why it is important to think about the choices you make in life, because it not only affects you, but the people around you. I do believe that people do plant bad seeds that will manifest oneday. Now what the "karma" is, who knows? The best revenge is living your life to the fullest and becoming successful regardless.
 
i've seen people screw women over and turn around and get their heart broken.

One dude I know cheated on one of my friends and had a baby and acted indifferent about it. Went on to a new relationship and was stupid in love and the new girl PLAYED HIM. 2 years later he came back crying to my friend wanting to marry her. She laughed in his face.
 
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He's got a felony background, still trying to get his degree after all these years. A job he hates, two kids to take care of, and a quain who isn't satisfying him. He calls trying to see if we can get back together. Nah son, too little too late.

My other ex is still living off women. He hasn't got a pot nor window and thinks he's the ish. Taking these old whack pictures of himself holding his breath in front of someone else's house and putting them on fb. This man is in his 40's. smdh
 
I don't think karma does things all the time, but I do think that people suffer internally for their choices whether we see it or not.
 
I'm not so wrapped up in my exes that I hope they "pay" for what they've done. It's called letting go.

I don't think Karma works the way people have imagined it. Right and wrong is relative, how can you tell that the "punishment" is for that specific "crime"? In that case we're all waiting for our just deserves because no one is perfect :nono:
 
I posted about it in the first boyfriend thread. He'll spend the next 37 yrs in prison.

My 2nd boyfriend was more of a reverse situation. I was so nice to him, and I think karma's been great to me over the years! I don't think his life is bad or anything, but I think life's been better to me than to him.
 
I think karma mirrors what you have done (good or not-so-good) but to a higher degree. I don't necessarily believe it is always something someone can see from the outside looking in. A person that has hurt you may look like the world is their oyster but only they know what's in their heart and mind. Fancy possessions, tons of money and a smile on a person's face doesn't mean everything is just peachy.

I think my ex's only karma is probably missing me. He is a very nostalgic man and for all the time we spent together, I am everywhere. In every song. On every street. At every meal. So while we are not together, I know that is very tough for him. He is the sort of man that remembers a conversation he had with a stranger on a train 20+ years ago. Imagine spending a 1/3 of your life with someone?
 
Don't believe in Karma.

But the negative that happened to my ex:

-lost his car due to non-payment

-sprung his thigh muscle and he was off work for 6 months on disability

-somehow his job got wind that he was better at 4 months and FIRED HIM!

-he had to file for bankruptcy or his credit was just bad

I take no joy in these things happening to him. I felt sorry for him.
 
Pretty Brown Eyes said:
I dont believe in karma. I do believe in consequences to actions. Even then, sometimes people get away with doing bad things. That's why we should never focus on the other person.

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But karma is essentially consequences to actions (the true definition). Karma is not a cosmic justice system. A person makes a cause that will eventually manifest into an effect. It's as sure as you breathing air. The consequence may not be as harsh or what you think it should be as the "wronged" party, but that does not mean karma has escaped that person. Karma can be very subtle, but still detrimental.

For example, a man has cheated on you. He's still dating while you're still hurting. Some feel karma should be the the woman he cheated with cheats on him. That may be one effect of the cause he made. Or he could be inwardly in shambles, never being able to have a satisfying relationship. He may never be able to be truly intimate or trust anyone again. He may get an STD. All of these things may happen to him, or one of them, or none of them. Or something could happen to him that doesn't even seem to be related to what he actually did. Doesn't mean karma didn't get to him or won't.
 
I don't know about karma but sometimes the "punishment" is that they remain exactly as they are. forever.
 
Last I heard, he was jobless, homeless(bouncing around through family) and car-less.


Must suck to be you.
 
I dunno about Ms. Karma but lets see:

He still lives with his mother
Got fired from his job accusing the white boss of racism
None of his children are interested in him
He screams how badly he wants a girlfriend but keeps running into girls who want open relationships :lol:

Bad hand, bad choices....whatever. I've always did me without looking back...
Sweet revenge should have been... Him seeing how successful I've become and engaged to the same.

Funny thing is, by the time their so called just deserts hit them, we dont even GAF anymore. I'm too happy in my current life to be harboring ill feelings to some dumbass ex.
 
Thanks. I am not looking for karma. But I do believe what goes around comes around...with interest. You do good and good comes back to you...with interest.
 
Lucie said:
I think karma mirrors what you have done (good or not-so-good) but to a higher degree. I don't necessarily believe it is always something someone can see from the outside looking in. A person that has hurt you may look like the world is their oyster but only they know what's in their heart and mind. Fancy possessions, tons of money and a smile on a person's face doesn't mean everything is just peachy.

I think my ex's only karma is probably missing me. He is a very nostalgic man and for all the time we spent together, I am everywhere. In every song. On every street. At every meal. So while we are not together, I know that is very tough for him. He is the sort of man that remembers a conversation he had with a stranger on a train 20+ years ago. Imagine spending a 1/3 of your life with someone?
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Oooo!!!
imagine sitting down alone...
or even with a new partner, and the food doesn't even taste the same,
because all he can think about is YOU..

yep.. i've been there...
that's when your life has permeated every crack and crevice of theirs...
 
Starian said:
But karma is essentially consequences to actions (the true definition). Karma is not a cosmic justice system. A person makes a cause that will eventually manifest into an effect. It's as sure as you breathing air. The consequence may not be as harsh or what you think it should be as the "wronged" party, but that does not mean karma has escaped that person. Karma can be very subtle, but still detrimental.

For example, a man has cheated on you. He's still dating while you're still hurting. Some feel karma should be the the woman he cheated with cheats on him. That may be one effect of the cause he made. Or he could be inwardly in shambles, never being able to have a satisfying relationship. He may never be able to be truly intimate or trust anyone again. He may get an STD. All of these things may happen to him, or one of them, or none of them. Or something could happen to him that doesn't even seem to be related to what he actually did. Doesn't mean karma didn't get to him or won't.
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YUP!!!
this whole post sums it up for me..
 
I definitely believe in karma, which is why I try to do right most of the time. Im not hoping or praying that my exes get done wrong because I know they will be taken care of eventually too. The world is round and it keeps spinning.
 
Starian said:
But karma is essentially consequences to actions (the true definition). Karma is not a cosmic justice system. A person makes a cause that will eventually manifest into an effect. It's as sure as you breathing air. The consequence may not be as harsh or what you think it should be as the "wronged" party, but that does not mean karma has escaped that person. Karma can be very subtle, but still detrimental.

For example, a man has cheated on you. He's still dating while you're still hurting. Some feel karma should be the the woman he cheated with cheats on him. That may be one effect of the cause he made. Or he could be inwardly in shambles, never being able to have a satisfying relationship. He may never be able to be truly intimate or trust anyone again. He may get an STD. All of these things may happen to him, or one of them, or none of them. Or something could happen to him that doesn't even seem to be related to what he actually did. Doesn't mean karma didn't get to him or won't.
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Totally agree!

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