What are some things you do to show your man he's appreciated?

Mine probably isn't that major, but I like leaving little thinking of you notes. Or, yesterday I realized that he would miss the premier of Smallville because he went to volunteer to help out the victims of Ike. If you guys know what a HUGE fan he is...it's really sad. lol Anyway, I taped it for him, and he thought that was so sweet. lol
 
I'm a romantic person and I have done several things in the past for my ex boyfriends:

1. Made a basket and put items that he likes: wine, cologne, lotion, candy, towel, handcloth, a new cd that he wants

2. I have sent a package to his job that consisted of a card that said to open in a private place. In the box I had a mix R&B cd, massage lotion and lingerie. So he already new what was up for the night...

3. Sent flowers at work

4. Cooked some cookies to take to work

5. Serving breakfast in bed is always a winner...

6. Written a love letter

Never done before, but I have always wanted my partner and I to read a love poems or any books by Zane together while laying in bed together... Sometimes you just need special moments like that...

Well that's me two cents....
 
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I like to suprise my SO.
1. I send thinking of you text messages
2. send pictures of my black bra and panties set and say I will be waiting.
3. I sing his favorite Tina Marie song
4. I play hostess, I organize his video games and let his stank friends come to my house for monday night foot ball. *this is a big one* he know his friends are messy and loud and I can't stand some of them . MAJOR Brownie points....
 
Shut my mouth.

Sometimes, women, including me, talk too much.

I appreciate him enough to know he needs quiet time too, lol.
 
On his days off, I take the baby to the sitter early and serve him a full breakfast in bed (sausage, grits, crossaints, strawberries, and mimosa) w/out any clothes on. :blondboob
 
I keep him around... being in my company should be plenty enough.

Anyways, I find that when I do sweet things it goes unappreciated...
but when I act like a ****... they like it... so no matter how much I want
to spoil my man... I only do so on special occassions like his birthday.
 
NClady said:
I'm a romantic person and I have done several things in the past for my ex boyfriends:

1. Made a basket and put items that he likes: wine, cologne, lotion, candy, towel, handcloth, a new cd that he wants

2. I have sent a package to his job that consisted of a card that said to open in a private place. In the box I had a mix R&B cd, massage lotion and lingerie. So he already new what was up for the night...

3. Sent flowers at work

4. Cooked some cookies to take to work

5. Serving breakfast in bed is always a winner...

6. Written a love letter

Never done before, but I have always wanted my partner and I to read a love poems or any books by Zane together while laying in bed together... Sometimes you just need special moments like that...

Well that's me two cents....
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Awwww I'm a romantic as well and I have done the bolded also :yep:

I've bought an overpriced throwback football jersey of his favorite player and surprised him with it on in bed.
 
I have done soooo many things...

Gift basket-with his favorite colognes, cognac, etc
Gift basket-with all freaky things such as dirty dice, freak me coupons, fuzzy hand cuffs
Made a calendar-Took professional boudouir photos of myself using his favorite things as props. such as his football jersey, basketball memorabilia, etc
Gave him his own week June 13-20th -Everyday there was an agenda of things he liked ie: Monday-Spa night-give him all treatments he would get at a spa including oil massage and manicure and pedicure, Tuesday-belly dance for him, etc
Sex Scavenger Hunt-Put sticky notes starting on the house door that eventually lead to a candlelit dinner and bumping in grinding to the bedroom!
Making his favorite dessert/meal

i could go on and on!
 
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I am all for ego stroking when appropriate.

When I did have an SO I would get really pretty, in a hot dress, makeup, lots of legs, and hair done too.:lick: I let him know that I got all dress up just for him. :yep:

Go out and make him feel like the man for a night. Hanging on him and kissing on him like he is the big king kong.:kiss2: Men love this. Knowing he was out with the hottest girl in the place AND he gets to take her home.
 
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Small stuff:

Not my man, but I try to note when his eyes light up over something, especially if it's something he doesn't have yet. Typically, it's something small and then I'll get it later for an accomplishment or just cause.

I actively listen when he speaks, so I he knows I appreciate what he says.

I give him massages at night, especially if he's had a long day. Or a simple, long, receptive hug.

I always date these guys with stressful jobs and it seems like they really appreciate a long, receptive hug (especially if their relatives are in another country). It's a kind of touch men don't get often if they're not around family. Sidenote: Totally thought one guy was going to start crying when I hugged him after work the night the banks in Greece fell and he had it together until that point.

I have been known to leave a basket of goods with the doorman (favorite, hard to find beer or wine; cookies; favorite chocolate; a Jersey; sports mag; racy, lingerie pic, etc-- not all at once). Was planning to vacation in the UK during a music week and see a Liverpool game (would have majorly regret it b/c he actually didn't deserve me, didn't know that at the time).

There's a look I give that he loves... didn't realize I was doing it.

Sexually, we skrait, though my knees are banged up. When he does something I like, he absolutely knows, but I'll also tell (or write) him later in detail why I liked it, how he made me feel and I remind him that he always takes such good care of me. I can tell it makes him feel "special" and it's fo' sho a win-win situation.

I try to make sure he knows I appreciate all of him and most importantly, I allow him into a space very few men have ever been in. It's a privilege, he knows it, and we both reap the benefits of reciprocity.

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Sexually, we skrait, though my knees are banged up.
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Full body massage. I know human anatomy extremely well, but took a massage class (should have enrolled in a cooking class) to put my skills on a heavenly level. Even learned about aromatherapy and oils. I go from head to toe. And take my time.

Leave him little notes in his wallet or pocket that tell him one thing that I love about him. 'When you told me that joke the other day, which was HIlarious, I fell in love all over again when I heard you laugh. I love your laugh.'

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