What Am I Doing?

[PrettyBrownEyes]

I met this guy on line recently, and we have gone out a few times. Even though he has nice qualities, and some of the wants I have been wanting in a relationship, I'm not really feeling him. I haven't made a clean break because he has good qualities and I don't want to regret it later. The thing is I do not have any romantic feelings for him and he does for me. He calls me and texts all the time. He wants to spend a lot of time together, and this all would be cool if I was feeling him like that.

He has noticed that I don't seem that interested but, he still stays around. I should probably cut it off at this point. The problem right now is we are supposed to go to an event that he has already purchased tickets for. Should I just go to this and then end it?

 

[runwaydream]

I think you should go. He already purchased tickets. Also this will give him one more chance to see if you're certain that you cant like this guy.

 

[PrettyBrownEyes]

Thank you!

 

[mlj]

You are using him...Stop be honest with him and yourself..
The only reason you thanked runway was because she said what you wanted to hear>

 

[Transformer]

What is it that you think you don't like? Is it the lack of physical attraction? Or is he just not "thug" enough for you? Do tell?

 

[CandiceC]

Perhaps he can find someone else to go with him to the event.

I think you should let him know how you feel.

 

[jnicole]

I just recently got out of the exact same situation. I ended because he just wasn't what I was looking for. We met online, we went out a few times and he wanted a relationship with me. I just wasn't feeling him like that no matter how hard I tried. He had some of what I was looking for, but I just couldn't develop romantic feelings for him. I kept telling him this but he stilled wanted to try. I feel so much more relieved that its over instead of staying and trying to force it. I say end it now and don't waste any more of his time or yours. Hopefully he can find someone else to go with.

The guy I was dating text me the other day and asked for his mixed CD back.