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We've come a long way(reflection time lol)

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SoAnxious12

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I was looking at some of my past posts and i've noticed i have come a looong way since i've joined LHCF. I came here with unhealthy base of neck length relaxed hair, then i transitioned, now i'm almost a full natural and my hair for the most part is pretty healthy! There's other ladies on this board who've come a long way too. One of my personal favs is Ayeisha. Her hair is gorgeous. I know there's many more so if any ladies would like to reflect c'mon on over!
 
I've come a long way also.. my hair was just a LITTLE bit past ear length when I came here.. now I'm a few inches past shoulder length (wont know exact amount til Sat).. slowly coming up on bra-strap length. My hair has also gotten a lot healthier.. when I came here I hardly washed my hair and when I did I use the blowdryer/curling iron. Now I either air dry or sit under the hooded dryer.. I only use direct heat (flat iron) ONCE a month and that's only on months when I'm more than 4wks post relaxer. I'm doing good..
 
I'll reflect with you. Since I've joined LHCF, I have learned so much about how to take care of my hair. When I first stumbled on the site, I thought--what in the world is this? Then, as I began to read the various threads, I saw that you ladies were on a quest for healthy hair. Link to latest comparison pic in siggy.
 
When I really started getting active on the board, my hair was just past my shoulders (at the beginning of 2004). I wish I had a pic of it then, so I can see how far I've come. While I did my own touch-ups, I always blowdried, and curled, and flatironed. This board taught me how to rollerset, airdry, and every other thing I can think of to keep my hair healthy. Not to mention introduce me to a ton of products and make me remember ones that I used to use in the past :) I have a lot of people to thank on here for their inspiration and assistance. I only hope one day I can return the favor!

Hugs,
Crys
 
I've definitely come a long way. When I first joined LHCF, I was tiring of relaxing my hair. I decided to transition not too long after that, but eventually gave in to the relaxer after about 3 months. I continued to relax for several months until I finally decided to give up relaxing for good in May of last year. I'm now 8 months into my transition and I am not looking back! :D
 
I've also come a loooong way since joining this board in 2002.
I joined the board is search of a remedy for my "postpartum" shedding... well, I learned there was nothing to be done about it...& just let it run it's course.

In the meanwhile, I began practicing a healthy regimen... I cut out the hot curlers, flat irons, crimpers & blow dryers...I started "AIRDRYING", doing protective styles & stretching out my touchups for 4-6 mths.... I was able to retain length & my hair began to THRIVE!

I became a pro at maintaining a healthy regimen on my relaxed hair. Then I became verrrry curious...I wanted to find out if I could manage my "natural" hair as well as I was managing my relaxed hair.... (( without heat usage at that!!)). Well, I made the decision to transition... THE ABSOLUTE BEST DECISION I'VE EVER MADE ABOUT MY HAIR!!

...ok, lemme finish this up :violin: cuz I might be putting folks to :sleep: :lol:

After successfully transitioning for 18 mths, I finally chopped the relaxed hair, & there it was... my natural precious tresses... & my first time EVER seeing my hair natural (that I could remember) .....

..... LHCF followed along with me the entire way.... oh, the memories :violin:
 
I've come a long way regarding my misconceptions about hair and hair health in general :) I really appreciate and understand OTHER people's hair a lot more now thanks to LHCF.
 
SoAnxious12 said:
I was looking at some of my past posts and i've noticed i have come a looong way since i've joined LHCF. I came here with unhealthy base of neck length relaxed hair, then i transitioned, now i'm almost a full natural and my hair for the most part is pretty healthy! There's other ladies on this board who've come a long way too. One of my personal favs is Ayeisha. Her hair is gorgeous. I know there's many more so if any ladies would like to reflect c'mon on over!

oh wow thank you :kiss: I really appreciate it


I really dont have much to relfect on except that I came here with avg 10in relaxed locks....saw some people who were transitioning...and I bc'd the following day. I knew I wanted to be natural but I wasnt sure of how to do it. Talk about spontaneous :lol:

Now my hair has really taken off...I still suffer from breakage and some split ends but anything is better than how I was treating my hair in the past (hot pressing combs, brushing, infrequent washing). Its a miracle that I had below shoulder length hair with all of that abuse :nono:

So now Im ready to grow grow grow. Its gonna take awhile but Ill be patient :)
 
I must say that I've come a long way too. It's like night and day for me from crunchy, breaking, dried, thinning, burned, see-through hair to soft, thick, healthier, moving, longer and always moisturized hair.

The airdrying, no heat, washing 2x per week, protective styles, rollersetting, using leave-ins, stretching my relaxers -- all of these were new concepts for me!

I'm always learning more about hair. It continues to be a fun journey.:)
 
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