JosieLynn,
One thing to decide early is what type of hair you want to get. This will depend on how much maintenance you are willing to put in to the up keep of your leave out (if you have any). I'm natural 4a/b and prefer to have my horseshoe left out so I try to get weave that will blend with my natural hair (kinky straight if I'm willing to blow out and flat iron my leave-out or a kinky curly weave to better blend with my coils). There is also the option of using a closure which is a 3x4 inch weave piece glued or preferably sew-in to the front of your hair that will allow you to leave no hair out but have a believable part. Closures can be tricky to master so make sure the stylist has experience applying them.
Questions to ask/ Things to Consider:
1. Full head (no hair left out), full weave (perimeter and/ or horse shoe left out) or partial (tracks alternating with own hair left out)?
2. Type/ texture of hair to use? (lite/ italian yaki, coarse yaki, kinky straight, kinky curly/ afro curly). These options are chemical or steamed processed to look like various AA textures. There's virgin hair too (unprocessed).
3. How to find and research vendors (try Black Hair Media and You tube for recommendations but beware that some people are paid or sponsored to give favorable reviews)
4. BSS vs. Online (including Chinese vendors)- Can you wait for hair to ship? Processing times vary widely by vendor.
5. Price point: Hair can get expensive- you have to decide what your price point will be. BSS will have basic yaki at a reasonable price but may not last beyond one install because of matting, shedding, and tangling. But expensive hair is not immune from issues either. Some BSS hair can be just as expensive as buying online. I say invest in quality (human, cuticle aligned, strong wefts, known for minimal shedding, re-usable) so that you will get several installs out of.
6. Who to install? You can't trust just anyone's skills. The final product may be bomb but if not properly installed, your real hair will suffer (from incorrect wash, condition, or blow dry, to cornrows done to tightly, to thread sewn to tightly).
7. Several hair companies that are fairly known include: Bobbi Boss (BSS hair), Senghori Shells, Extensions Plus, ONYC hair, Jace Beauty, All About My Hair (AAMH), KinkyCurlyYaki (KCY), Sassy Mitchell, and HallysCurls. Alibaba and AliExpress is like an online marketplace for purchasing directly from vendors- choose wisely when by directly from China. Some stylists actually sell and use their own hair (purchased from a private vendor). You can ask your stylist for recommendations also.
8. How will you maintain it? (moisturizing, washing, and conditioning your hair and the weave regularly, proper take-down, re-installing at 8-12 weeks).
Keep us posted on your decision.