Way to go girl. BlackBarbie has been transitioning for 14 months, and she's not big chopping either. Take a look at her avatar pic (or either pics in the gallery).Thank you!!All is going well!!
My two previous transitions were for only 3 months--I BC-ed both times, I was not at all ready. So when I got frustrated, I relaxed!Since I have witnessed long transitions on this board, I know that they are possible and I don't have to BC.
Plus, just like you, I can't imagine getting a relaxer at 80!
This time, I'm in it for the long haul! Both of my daughters are in it with me as well! (Plus, if I feel the need to relax, I will just slap some braids in it.)
I'm in it "full throttle" this time around though. No more relaxin' for me!![]()