westNDNbeauty
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I'm subbed to this guy. He wrote a book called The Ring Forumla. My friend read it and she said it's a good tool for us single ladies to have in our arsenal.
Note: This video is 50 mins long. Even if you were to fast fwd through some parts, I think no matter where you land you will hear something that will be beneficial or confirm your initial suspicions about men and how they view certain situations.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfpvxuj-_QE&feature=autoplay&list=LLoS2pRHeqt4M&index=2&playnext=1
Note: This video is 50 mins long. Even if you were to fast fwd through some parts, I think no matter where you land you will hear something that will be beneficial or confirm your initial suspicions about men and how they view certain situations.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfpvxuj-_QE&feature=autoplay&list=LLoS2pRHeqt4M&index=2&playnext=1
Thanks for posting!
erplexed. 
). Like most men giving relationship advice nowadays (i.e. Steve Harvey and his ilk), he focuses on one type of relationship (traditional), one type of man (traditional), and one type of positive female role in relationships (traditional). He uses fictional scenarios (all of which feature successful, attractive, AAs) to demonstrate his concepts and the woman who gives the man the benefit of the doubt, cuts him some slack, and/or caters to his ego is ALWAYS the woman who gets what she wants. There's no talk of not getting what you want from a man who may misread subtle signals and there's no room to directly address an issue in which he may truly be in the wrong. Long story short: A traditional woman who is interested in pursuing a relationship with a traditional man may get some value from his book. Women who aren't bound to traditional gender roles (and are seeking a like-minded man) won't get much out of his book.