divachyk
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Her has is very nice looking -- blonde highlights, neck length -- but she goes to a salon and pays ridiculous amounts of money to achieve the same look we ladies know how to do ourselves. She never PS and probably has never heard of the term. I'm not trying to boast but I was recently promoted at work so maybe in some random kinda way she is being a hater but I really hope not. *sigh*If I were you I would not be offended...some people just don't understand. What did her hair look like, maybe it was a passive aggressive hater move...or maybe not. I'd shrug it off and do your thang.
I've casually asked her about a few things we've discuss on LHCF and nope, not at all -- deer in headlights look -- I have to remind myself I now belong the Sorority LHCF so that then makes me of the minority so I better work it and rep for us all.She probably is like the majority of AA women (as in, women who are NOT card-carrying members of LHCF) and has never even fathomed the idea of wearing wigs as a PS. After I read what you said about her being a non-practicing cosmetologist, I am SURE she hasn't heard of it. She probably thinks you will come in there looking like a Barbie doll and that's why she's so opposed to it. I mean, even if you DO come in with a busted wig, the joke will be on HER when your hair is still flyy in a few months.
Girl don't worry about her ! Find a nice wig that looks natural, style it to suit you and your co worker won't have anything to say except how she can get a similar look.
I never understood this.You hit the nail on the head with the grandmother comment. A lot of people have no frame of reference for wigs other than elderly family members. I know my aunt and grandmother always wore/wear wigs but no one else in my family did and none of my friends do. Its just considered old school to a lot of people. Weaves, however, are an every day thing so its not even worth discussing. Go figure.[/B]
I too agree --She'll be one who secretly admires your hair if you kept wearing them to retain length.