Use 1 Buy 1 Challenge pt.5

@Aggie @LushLox @Beany
I want to "Thank You" (and others) for your post in Random Thoughts - It's sad when you have to try to reason with Grown Women how to act.

When you run across rude, thoughtless, ignorant, nonsensical, ghetto-gutteral ramblings it's jarring. As I explained to you and others....For the past couple weeks, I thought it was a Troll, a young kid or even a guy or Tru.mp?:laugh: (The Forum has had a few interesting posters over the years).

And you try to remain half way "courteous" and decent but folks will try you.

There are several black women PhD's who are psychologists in the offices behind mine that are always discussing how prominent mental health issues are increasing among black women, and always discussing black women and our "emotional health" so you try to let crazy slide to a certain extent. But after hearing them talk about it often, I'm realizing how "real" it can be for some folks.

We have enough angry, bad tempered folks IRL and no one wants to be bothered with that on the web. Again, thank you all for your posts.
 
IDareT'sHair said:
@Aggie
I want to "Thank You" (and others) for your post in Random Thoughts - It's sad when you have to try to reason with Grown Women how to act.

When you run across rude, thoughtless, ignorant, nonsensical, ghetto-gutteral ramblings it's jarring. As I explained to you and others....For the past couple weeks, I thought it was a Troll, a young kid or even a guy or Tru.mp?:laugh: (The Forum has had a few interesting posters over the years).

And you try to remain half way "courteous" and decent but folks will try you.

There are several black women PhD's who are psychologists in the offices behind mine that are always discussing how prominent mental health issues are increasing among black women, and always discussing black women and our "emotional health" so you try to let crazy slide to a certain extent. But after hearing them talk about it often, I'm realizing how "real" it can be for some folks.

We have enough angry, bad tempered folks IRL and no one wants to be bothered with that on the web. Again, thank you all for your posts.
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@IDareT'sHair,

Honestly, I think the person in question was suffering from that emotional disease where women end up killing their children, drowning them in tubs of water or running them over a bridge, etc...I think it's called Post Partum Depression :look: and looking for attention wherever they can find it. (SHRUGS) I could be wrong though.

All I can say is, simply report them to the moderators. They'll know what to do from there.
 
NaturallyATLPCH said:
Uh oh, what did I miss?
*goes to Random Thoughts Thread* :roadrunner:
I think it's a curse. Let's stop praying away mental illnesses, acknowledge it, and GET PROFESSIONAL HELP. We need to break this generational curse of black women and mental illness.
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Hon, this person was causing problems all over the forum. We here in the hair forum just wasn't havin' it! That was a situation that was only going to get volatile given time.
 
@Aggie
The big thing in Clinical Health is Resiliency or being Resilient - How do you deal and/or recover from life's traumatic events. How quickly do you bounce back from traumatic life events.

I mean it can manifest in a variety of ways. (LOL)

You know there are "Trauma Units" for people suffering from trauma and according to these women (Dr's), there is an uptick in mental and emotional health issues with black women suffering from a variety of issues. And I think it's starting younger & younger with our girls. And these are things we often don't like to talk about or acknowledge in our community (when folks be ackin' cray).
 
IDareT'sHair said:
@Aggie
The big thing in Clinical Health is Resiliency or being Resilient - How do you deal and/or recover from life's traumatic events. How quickly do you bounce back from traumatic life events.

I mean it can manifest in a variety of ways. (LOL)

You know there are "Trauma Units" for people suffering from trauma and according to these women (Dr's), there is an uptick in mental and emotional health issues with black women suffering from a variety of issues. And I think it's starting younger & younger with our girls. And these are things we often don't like to talk about or acknowledge in our community.
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Agreed @IDareT'sHair. Problem is recognizing that there is first a problem and then figure out ways to address it.
 
IDareT'sHair said:
there is an uptick in mental and emotional health issues with black women suffering from a variety of issues. And I think it's starting younger & younger with our girls. And these are things we often don't like to talk about or acknowledge in our community (when folks be ackin' cray).
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It really needs to be acknowledged and addressed. Get folks the help they need and is available.
 
NaturallyATLPCH said:
Uh oh, what did I miss?
*goes to Random Thoughts Thread* :roadrunner:
I think it's a curse. Let's stop praying away mental illnesses, acknowledge it, and GET PROFESSIONAL HELP. We need to break this generational curse of black women and mental illness.
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@NaturallyATLPCH
Agreed! (Bolded):yep:

Gurl...you ain't miss nothing. :giggle:

I was just reprocessing the post @Aggie made yesterday.

And you right. about all of this.:supergrin:
 
rileypak said:
It really needs to be acknowledged and addressed. Get folks the help they need and is available.
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@rileypak So true. :nono:

Like @NaturallyATLPCH said, it becomes generational. The rudeness, crudeness, bullying all of that is coming from a place of systemic hurt/anger. As the old overworked saying goes: Hurt People - Hurt People.:ohwell:
Like @Aggie said - tearing up in errr thread.:lachen:Just turnt up for no reason.
 
IDareT'sHair said:
@rileypak So true. :nono:

Like @NaturallyATLPCH said, it becomes generational. The rudeness, crudeness, bullying all of that is coming from a place of systemic hurt/anger. As the old overworked saying goes: Hurt People - Hurt People.:ohwell:
Like @Aggie said - tearing up in errr thread.:lachen:Just turnt up for no reason.
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:yep: It was pure madness how fast she was moving through the whole forum it seemed.
 
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