I have to tell you. I usually press my hair. I wore my natural texture - air dried - no heat style a few weeks ago and he said my hair looked like crinkly fries. It hurt my feelings. But other people complimented it so I didn't care.
I shouldn't have but in retaliation I told him his butt was the color of soy milk and that he needed a tan.
I don't know why...I guess him being white...I kind of took that as a racial hit even though I know he's not like that. I felt stupid for saying that afterwards. I just couldn't think of anything else to say. So you're better than me cause I would have had to counter with something to make him feel like he was making me feel even though I know that's not the way. God help me. I'm still growing!
Well, he's been to the tanning bed 6 times in the last couple of weeks. So it looks like I'm not the only one with thin skin.
Your making me cry ..wipe those tears you hair looks beautiful...you are beautiful..Your DH is not good with change..and may even be a bit fearful of you making these kinds of changes. Hair holds a lot of power ..it is our glory and sometimes it overwhelms others..You serve a living God ...He says you are fearfully and wonderfully made. HE wrote your name in His hands....He called you the apple of His eye. Pray for your DH to have a tenderized heart.
MUCH LOVE
Your sister in hair
and in the Lord
I don't think your husband was wrong for what he said. You asked his opinion and he gave it to you. You shouldn't set yourself up for stuff like that if you can't handle it. You were looking for a compliment and he told you how he really felt. Would it have been better if he didn't say anything at all? Then you might have gotten mad about that. Men can't win for anything. Women need to stop asking questions they can't handle the answers to. Now stop crying because despite what he thinks, you like it and that is really what matters the most. If his opinion is that important to you then maybe you need to change your hair back to what he likes. Girl don't trip off of that. Now give me a hug and be happy!
ALSO remember this....
You are probably looking SOOO good right now and he is afraid that you will look good to other men as well... Men have VERY fragile egos and many fears...
By telling you he doesn't like it, he'll hope you'll change it back to the way it was...and you tell him....
SORRY!