Traveling with SO and Celibacy

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MiamiHottie

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Hey Ladies,

My So and I will be going on a trip. Should we get separate rooms? ( He says that's ridiculous). We have never spent the night with each other. How should we do this? Anybody else celibate and in a relationship?
 
If your wanting to retain your integrity until the wedd night, I would definately get separate rooms. Its something about being with the one you love and night time. When I was courting, I didnt even talk with him on the phone too late, and he respected me for it.
 
If you both have lots of self discipline share a room, if not seperate trying to fight lustful temptations can be hard !!!
 
It's easy to let your bootie tooch up against his manparts at night when one is trying to get comfy and cozy. that may start something. Just saying :look:

Maybe you can share a room that has two beds at the least.
 
Hi,

I was in a celibate relationship and we shared a room. Looking back, it might have been confusing for us both. In future I think I'd stay separately - I don't know but I seem to get more "traditional" as I get older.

That's just my experience and opinion, though. Best of luck.
 
Knowing myself I would get a separate room :look: He touches me and its over. Im just too weak to share the same room let alone the same bed. Get two separate rooms!
 
Why dont you just get two beds? :perplexed

That way there is no rubbing of body parts.

Of course I might want 2 room just b/c I have performance anxiety when it comes to the bathroom
 
I sleep with my SO sometimes and have remained celibate. He doesn't do me the favor of not trying and it is very tempting....but I have made a decision. I think it depends on the person.

Eta: just thought about it again...you should at least get separate beds :lol: I was typing this but I could talk the talk when he's not around.

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Thanks for the responses. Im going to just get a separate room. I wasn't worried about giving in but more so about "retaining integrity". I was feeling like I don't want to even be getting ready, showering etc with him in the same room. I've become more and more traditional as well and I want to keep everything a mystery.
 
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