thanks for all the feedback!! i'm only 2 months into my transition, and figured i'd chop up from APL to SL, and get bangs. since all the relaxed hair's gonna have to go eventually, i might as well get used to having short hair in the front of my head.
so the general consensus is, the more natural hair you have, the more difficult they are to deal with on their own, so most of you all pin them back. that's doable! i think i'm gonna take the plunge & get bangs for the first time!!!
thanks for the feedback, and keep it coming!