Thanks for all the replies. I'm too embarrassed to post a picture :-(
The ends I'm so intent on keeping are APL, but my bun is just pathetic. I think I'm going to have to clip to at least shoulder length to get any thickness back to my hair, but this is why I'm transitioning anyway. I may just do some mini chops so I can mitigate the shock: I'm a belly dancer and no hair it just "not the move". I can do wigs, but natural hair just feels easier to dance in. I have been attempting to use protein, but lately I've been doing henna for strength. It might be too late though.