lilanie
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aight... 1 external response and 10 views...
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Thank you for your thoughts/input @AyannaDivine
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Here is the email I received that prompted this pondering/need for action...
"[FONT=Calibri,sans-serif]You know what lilanie you are so correct. How can I be supportive of a situation I know nothing about. You are also right, I don’t know ANY of the facts. The only thing I am presuming is you don’t want to step outside of your comfort zone which is typical of you. Whatever the case is I stand by my feelings. There was nothing inflammatory nor presumptuous about what I said because I only responded to what you said. See below. So if all I know is what you say what is my response suppose to be? You say maybe when they get older…I say why not? You keep so many secrets there is no telling what the real story is about anything in your life..Nobody is perfect and most people know that..I don’t know if you are embarrassed or afraid of being judged, I really don’t..But if you released half of the things that are going on in your life, maybe the burden would not be so heavy..As far as the outside looking in I will tell you what I see…You have your own goals and things going on and you don’t have time in your life to deal with certain things. You feel like if you don’t say it out loud then it doesn’t exist..If you pretend your world is right then that’s what people will think and you will continue to be lilanie the Great. We all fall…Then we have the faith and strength and the help of HIM to get back up..Personally I am a walking issue, but at least I am honest about it…You are not. Take that how you will, but that is the truth..I have never judge you. Never will…Most people have their own crap going on to judge you about yours."
The bolded items are the statements that make me say "hmmmmmmmm, this is not working/worth it"
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Thank you for your thoughts/input @AyannaDivine
Okay... trying again...
Here is the email I received that prompted this pondering/need for action...
"[FONT=Calibri,sans-serif]You know what lilanie you are so correct. How can I be supportive of a situation I know nothing about. You are also right, I don’t know ANY of the facts. The only thing I am presuming is you don’t want to step outside of your comfort zone which is typical of you. Whatever the case is I stand by my feelings. There was nothing inflammatory nor presumptuous about what I said because I only responded to what you said. See below. So if all I know is what you say what is my response suppose to be? You say maybe when they get older…I say why not? You keep so many secrets there is no telling what the real story is about anything in your life..Nobody is perfect and most people know that..I don’t know if you are embarrassed or afraid of being judged, I really don’t..But if you released half of the things that are going on in your life, maybe the burden would not be so heavy..As far as the outside looking in I will tell you what I see…You have your own goals and things going on and you don’t have time in your life to deal with certain things. You feel like if you don’t say it out loud then it doesn’t exist..If you pretend your world is right then that’s what people will think and you will continue to be lilanie the Great. We all fall…Then we have the faith and strength and the help of HIM to get back up..Personally I am a walking issue, but at least I am honest about it…You are not. Take that how you will, but that is the truth..I have never judge you. Never will…Most people have their own crap going on to judge you about yours."
The bolded items are the statements that make me say "hmmmmmmmm, this is not working/worth it"
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