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lol...i used to think this way (and still do)...but i have to also look at myself. I'm not perfect...and i wouldn't want someone to shy away from me b/c of some lil silly trait, or fault of mine.
But when u say total package....exactly what are u talking about? What are u looking for?
i dnt think u can ever find a 100% so u have to sacrifise 20% im by no means saying anyone should settle, its just that no one is a 100%, everyone has a different view of what a total package is but i think everyone has must haves then are non negotiable (that dont matter in the grand scheme of things) and other things that are
sometimes this is how i feel.
i dnt think u can ever find a 100% so u have to sacrifise 20% im by no means saying anyone should settle, its just that no one is a 100%, everyone has a different view of what a total package is but i think everyone has must haves then are non negotiable (that dont matter in the grand scheme of things) and other things that are
I think it's possible to get the total package within reason, but I also think some women place too much emphasis on a checklist instead of giving a man room to be who he is. There is no such thing as a perfect person so I think there has to be a balance. I also think women should be careful about having expectations of men that they can not or will not meet themsevles.
I also think wanting a "total package" requires that a woman do a LOT of introspection and soul searching herself to discover what she really NEEDS in a healthy relationship and what she WANTS. The two can be the difference between a deal breaker and happily ever after.
I say pursue the total package, but stay flexible. The perfect man for you may not be who you think he is. Life is full of ironic surprises.
I think it's possible to get the total package within reason, but I also think some women place too much emphasis on a checklist instead of giving a man room to be who he is. There is no such thing as a perfect person so I think there has to be a balance. I also think women should be careful about having expectations of men that they can not or will not meet themsevles.
I also think wanting a "total package" requires that a woman do a LOT of introspection and soul searching herself to discover what she really NEEDS in a healthy relationship and what she WANTS. The two can be the difference between a deal breaker and happily ever after.
I say pursue the total package, but stay flexible. The perfect man for you may not be who you think he is. Life is full of ironic surprises.
i agree.....should women take physical appearance out of the equation.....i NEED...to be attracted to a man.....i dont think i could ever truly look over that characteristic.
Absolutely not. Physical attraction matters! In the beginning, that's all you have. But I would not be hung up on every detail of how he looks (eye color, ear size, etc). Being attracted to a man, IMO, is necessary, but knitpicking over a man's appearance is not. I don't want him all up in my pores so I stay outta his.
i agree.....should women take physical appearance out of the equation.....i NEED...to be attracted to a man.....i dont think i could ever truly look over that characteristic.[/QUOTE]
Yeah but sometimes...Kindness, Integrity, Honor, Character are more attractive than any six-pack, nice body, etc.
Sometimes what you thought was attractive is not attractive anymore, ask any 20ish woman vs 35ish woman.
i agree.....should women take physical appearance out of the equation.....i NEED...to be attracted to a man.....i dont think i could ever truly look over that characteristic.
Yeah but sometimes...Kindness, Integrity, Honor, Character are more attractive than any six-pack, nice body, etc.
Sometimes what you thought was attractive is not attractive anymore, ask any 20ish woman vs 35ish woman.
Umm when you find that man,please please find out if he has a brother!well obviously my type, a provider ( a man who takes of all the household expenses regardless of my income)...a man who allows me to preserve my "lady ness", educated, no wandering eye, not selfish in the bedroom, isnt broke, marriage minded...
i can go on forever....
Good luck with that.well obviously my type, a provider ( a man who takes of all the household expenses regardless of my income)...a man who allows me to preserve my "lady ness", educated, no wandering eye, not selfish in the bedroom, isnt broke, marriage minded...
i can go on forever....