Charla
New Member
I knew nothing of a Healthy Hair Journey until 10 months ago. And ever since then, I've been taking in tons of YT videos, hair board archives on different forums, and have Googled mega info on taking care of black hair. And now all of a sudden, it's not "just hair."
Before the beginning of HHJ, I was an eternal SL relaxed lady who never used heat protectants (didn't even know what they were!), never wore a satin bonnet to bed, could care less if my hair got caught under my purse strap, and on and on.
But now, after my many, many months of researching, I started slowly developing a FEAR of my hair. WHAT?! I mean I am deathly scared (well, not deathly!) of harming it! I'm paranoid of breakage, setbacks, heat damage, rubber bands, satin bonnets that aren't satiny enough, small tooth combs, bobby pins with no tips, metal hair accessories, brushes --- everything!
I don't even let my children and DH touch my hair with out jumping back -- what is wrong with me?!
I saw a girl with a cute natural puff and I went on YT to see how to do it, and I saw them BRUSHING their hair, OMG! (joke!) I saw them PULLING it back with their hands! I saw them wrapping long hair ties around their strands! And instead of admiring and process and realizing that these ladies STILL HAVE HAIR, I was just feeling myself petrified looking at them!
This has got to end! Ladies, when will it end? How can I recover from this? When will I stop being deathly afraid of my own darn hair?????!!!!!
Before the beginning of HHJ, I was an eternal SL relaxed lady who never used heat protectants (didn't even know what they were!), never wore a satin bonnet to bed, could care less if my hair got caught under my purse strap, and on and on.
But now, after my many, many months of researching, I started slowly developing a FEAR of my hair. WHAT?! I mean I am deathly scared (well, not deathly!) of harming it! I'm paranoid of breakage, setbacks, heat damage, rubber bands, satin bonnets that aren't satiny enough, small tooth combs, bobby pins with no tips, metal hair accessories, brushes --- everything!
I don't even let my children and DH touch my hair with out jumping back -- what is wrong with me?!
I saw a girl with a cute natural puff and I went on YT to see how to do it, and I saw them BRUSHING their hair, OMG! (joke!) I saw them PULLING it back with their hands! I saw them wrapping long hair ties around their strands! And instead of admiring and process and realizing that these ladies STILL HAVE HAIR, I was just feeling myself petrified looking at them!
This has got to end! Ladies, when will it end? How can I recover from this? When will I stop being deathly afraid of my own darn hair?????!!!!!