Rapunzel*
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ok my supervisor have been having major problems with her husband. hes controlling mentally abusive, threatened to kill her if she ever leaves him etc.lately hes been taking pills saying hes going to kill himself if she leaves himim sure you dont think its funny but my sons dad did the pill thing on me and i took him back, but he did the same thing again and i left him. that fool wasnt gonna kill hisself and my supervisors husband isnt gonna kill himself but i already told her its game. a few months back he told her that he was gonna change and he wanted to remarry her[this time not at city hall bt a real wedding. they got married and marriage counselling and all that good stuff. he wanted to give her a big ring and shes like nah, he insists but she ended up giving in to a big rock and a diamond wedding band along with his which was a set. he makes the house payment and she pays the bills credit cards etc, so you know what that means shes paying for the wedding rings that he picked out that SHE hAS to pay for
so they had marriage counseling and the pastor says that she has to forgive him through all things. and she has to stand by him, it was a time that the pastor got upset with him and said ok ****** this is her last chance so you have to do her right and he was doing good until a month after the wedding. the pastor finds out about the pill thing and the threatning and he says that she has to stay with him reguardless. because the bible says sowhich it does but you know
there should be exceptions.i mean there are exceptions for divorce if your life is in danger. i told her god doesnt want her to suffer and that he loves her. and i also told her she shouldnt really be stoned because she was only 16 when she got married and she had to marry him or her mother said she couldnt see him anymore[she was carrying her daughter who is now 15]. so they are living together still but sepperated until 11 months. and they will see whats gonna happen but her heart does not beat for him anymore,she has 3 kids by the way and shes 30 so she has a whole life ahead of her and i want her to be happy. and im hoping that she wont get punished by god by getting away from this man. i mean pastors are doing it too. by the way her pastor told her he use to hit his wife for 6 years and god changed him[ which could be true] and they are still married thats why i think he's telling her that she has to stay.
so will she be wrong for taking her and her children out of this atmosphere? and getting a divorce
maybe i should have put this in the christan section but feel free to answer anyone...............
so they had marriage counseling and the pastor says that she has to forgive him through all things. and she has to stand by him, it was a time that the pastor got upset with him and said ok ****** this is her last chance so you have to do her right and he was doing good until a month after the wedding. the pastor finds out about the pill thing and the threatning and he says that she has to stay with him reguardless. because the bible says sowhich it does but you know
so will she be wrong for taking her and her children out of this atmosphere? and getting a divorce
maybe i should have put this in the christan section but feel free to answer anyone...............