StarScream35
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What do you guys think? I always cut ties with my exes because in my mind it's not fair to a future mate if I got someone I've been with hanging on the side. I'm curious to see what others think.
I agree I don't need these "friends" at all. If we were truly "friends" we probably would have never got together in the first place.What do you guys think? I always cut ties with my exes because in my mind it's not fair to a future mate if I got someone I've been with hanging on the side. I'm curious to see what others think.
I keep contact with some of my exes. And my previous SO and my current SO have exes they stay in contact with. It's all in what you can deal with.
I don't date men who have issues with it. It's thrown on the table early on and if they have an issue with it then I keep moving. At this stage I don't make a lot of life adjustments for someone I'm dating. That's just a decision I made for me when I was in my 20s.
I keep contact with some of my exes. And my previous SO and my current SO have exes they stay in contact with. It's all in what you can deal with.
I don't date men who have issues with it. It's thrown on the table early on and if they have an issue with it then I keep moving. At this stage I don't make a lot of life adjustments for someone I'm dating. That's just a decision I made for me when I was in my 20s.
That's key, BOUNDARIES...I recently hung out with my SO's bm. Why am I OK with that relationship, because of the boundaries.