This eejit woman

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Ganjababy

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at work met my DH at a social function. The next day at work she said to me that I must be good in bed to have gotten such a nice, pleasant, handsome man. I was a bit taken aback because we are not friends for her to bring that kind of argument to me. I kind of laughed it off but I was a bit perturbed. I don't know why.

My first thought when she said it was "how dare you think that! He is the bloody lucky one!"

I found it unnerving. Maybe because the bedroom is not my forte. Maybe because she is insinuating that he is above my league and as far as I am concerned he is not. I also wonder if she would have said something like that to a white couple. She is white.

Maybe I am over analysing this but it really annoyed me.
 
Pay her no mind. She wants to know how good your husband it in bed. It has nothing to do with you. She wants to know about "that" myth.
 
What does eejit mean?

And I think she said that for two reasons: 1) She may have tried to hit on your husband and he didn't bite, and 2) She was trying to rub you the wrong way with the "you must be good in bed" comment.
 
She's a witch. Watch your back.

I think I would have said, "Are you out of your mind?" and walked away.

But that's with knowing beforehand what type of foolishness could come out of a woman's mouth. Plus my husband is out of MY league and I am out of HIS league...so we're both friggin happy!

But that's the way I think about it.

Again, she's a J.e.a.l.o.u.s W.i.t.ch

The punctuation means nothing, I'm just emphasizing the truth. What a nutcase!
 
Idiot. I wanted to call her worse but I'm trying to be good.

Poohbear said:
What does eejit mean?

And I think she said that for two reasons: 1) She may have tried to hit on your husband and he didn't bite, and 2) She was trying to rub you the wrong way with the "you must be good in bed" comment.
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Wow wow wow okay stay away from her have you met her husband cause I would retorted wow I feel so sorry for him having married you he must cry everyday hahahahaha Are you all right sir smile :look:

Oh but its a work situation my bad
 
I would have been like "lookey here Batch! Maybe you should focus less on what's going on in my bedroom and focus more on getting a husband in yours" *hair filp*

You mentioned the batch was yt. Is your husband as well? Or does this heaux have jungle fever?? Either way she is jealous of you and I would keep my eye on her.
 
OH HELL NO!!!!

She was totally out of pocket with that, you are not overanalyzing AT ALL. I probably would have said something like "too bad your a** never get the chance to find out"!

SMDH.
 
So rude.

Im upset that she thought yall were cool enough for her to even say such a thing..then agan even a friend wouldnt say that ish cos it's implying that you alone arent good enough

You need to learn how to play the WW's fav game: Passive aggression.
 
If this happened at work I would have, said nothing giving her a shocked look before racing straight to HR on her arse. Sexual and racial harassment claims are a ******! And that was TOTALLY inappropriate.
 
PPGbubbles said:
You mentioned the batch was yt. Is your husband as well? Or does this heaux have jungle fever?? Either way she is jealous of you and I would keep my eye on her.
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This is what I thought when I read it too. White woman wondering what the hell are you doing with a white man & knocking you for it. Op is your husband white?

Did you leave that out on purpose? Yes it makes a difference!
 
MzLady78 said:
OH HELL NO!!!!

She was totally out of pocket with that, you are not overanalyzing AT ALL. I probably would have said something like "too bad your a** never get the chance to find out"!

SMDH.
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Yes. I definitely would have looked at her like she had two heads and then said something....something....IDK. That was soooo out of pocket and disrespectful and shady and UGH! I don't like her, OP! Watch your back! Inappropriate, ignorant, presumptuous, egregious! That isn't even proper workplace dialogue! Y'all ain't cool like that!

I suppose another way to handle it would be with a snarky, but funny remark and a smile. "Ah, actually HE'S the lucky one, THANK YOU!" But, I don't think I could have let her walk away unscathed! :nono:

These women kill me. :nono:
 
What a nasty little bitty! She was out of order trying to come at you with tomfoolery and shenanigans. Shouldn't she be working instead of worrying about you and your marital situation? I would have said something like, "my bedroom is none of your concern and such comments are completely inappropriate for the workplace." That way she knows to watch her mouth and that you know the HR game. But I can understand the shock of the situation sometimes just catches you off guard. As others have stated, watch that one.
 
I would ignore her. She's just being mean. Have you told your husband what he said? He needs to be aware of how to deal with her in the future.
 
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