Loved that video. It confirmed I wasn't crazy.
I used to use Dr Bonner's Castile (Peppermint) when I first joined the forum. I was advised I should use it on my scalp only during my wash and then use CON on my hair. I was so new to LHCF that I didn't even know what I'm supposed to feel or do, but my idols were using these products so I did too. I'm so glad I stopped because I just don't remember feeling as good about my hair as I used to feel when I used Pantene or another sulphate moisturizing shampoo. I had that Castile soap for almost a whole because I just couldn't get with it, and was happy to give it to my MIL when she came to visit because she loved to use it as a body wash.
Now baking soda, I didn't need to use it more than once to know it was the debil. It probably spoke volumes to me too coz I don't use leave-in products so my hair really doesn't need clarifying. Anyway, I had heard that if you added it to shampoo, you'd make the shampoo a clarifier. Lawd ha'mercy! The minute I applied that to my hair, the b/r was filled with the smell you get when you're relaxing your hair. Panic galore! I rinsed it so fast and almost in tears thinking I'd relaxed my hair. Lawd, my hair felt so dry and rough and had this grayish, dull look to it. I had samples of L'Anza shampoo so I used one of the moisturizing ones to bring my hair back to life. I never let BS get near my hair after that again...except for when I heard it's good for the face and chanced that only to learn again that BS is NOT my friend. The only time BS has been good for me is when I have consumed it. In water, it is good for UTI and good for creating an alkaline environment inside (<--I haven't used it for that yet.)
I haven't used lemon for my hair because I've seen it in rinses for oily hair, and mine isn't.
Now ACV, I love and as you will see in a lot of the threads I've posted in it, I always say err on the side of caution by using less than you think you need, because any acidity is better than none and so even a drop changes the pH of water to be more acidic and therefore better for you hair than the water w/o it. Too much acidity breaks down keratin, which might explain why people who use a tblsp in a glass of water end up not liking how their hair feels.
Nonie .. how much ACV/Water do you use?
I DO wonder though about all those people who seem to have great success using the products/ingredients/regimens that her research suggests is not good for our hair .. I mean it must work for them b/c they are not walking around bald!! ...
This proves how everything is not for everybody, even the products/ingredients/regimens SHE uses (for example I can't completely follow her washing regimen where she washes her hair loose in sections b/c we have different hair textures) ..
Hi!hmmm she said castille soap will make the hair obsorb too much water so what if you have dry porous hair??!!! could it fix it?? hmmmmmm
Hi!
I don't think castile soap would fix that.
Could the hair strands be dry and porus because you need to lay the cuticle down after you wet it and before it dries?
What about using a conditioner that has a lower ph that would help smooth down the cuticle after you wash the buildup from your hair. Then sealing the hair with an oil. HTH...Any thoughts??
I like her videos. Hopefully this will get some out of the mindset that if it's natural or edible, then it must be good. Not true.
I have had permanent cuticle damage before(overused heat), no product fixed my hair, just masked it. I just cut it off and went from there.I was also wondering about higher ph products like baking soda and castile soap "temporarily relaxing hair"-- How long would those results last? Would the dryness it causes because of the ph messing with the cuticle be permenant or have lasting damaging results that couldnt be fixed with a low ph? Would the bonds the high ph breaks be permenant like a relaxer? Im wondering why it would only be temporary because a relaxer isnt.
OMGosh - I can't view the video at work but I want to know:
- what now shall I mix my henna with? I usually mix it with ACV
- can anyone list or suggest condishes with the proper or acceptable pH level?
- had another one but forgot what it was LOL!
Last week I tried to use baking soda on my hair for the first time and it didn't feel soft at all. I read online that baking soda works well to remove chlorine. From reading past threads on LHCF about women mixing baking soda w/ conditioner to soften the hair, I thought my hair would come out soft while still removing the chlorine.
I've also read that ACV removes chlorine too.
Now, I don't know what to do cause swimmer shampoos strip my hair something terrible.