The camera doesn't lie

Your poor friend, she's in for a big heartbreak. He's such a jerk. Why couldn't he just leave her alone after they broke up?
 
Dude is IN the pics. How can he not know anything about it?! Who "plays around" saying 'I love you' to another woman. :sad: We've got to do better ladies.
 
I really don't know what else to add. What more proof does she need? If she wont even believe her own eyes, I doubt she will believe you.
 
I guess she is going to have to learn the hard, hard way. Too bad. He is going to have an excuse for every suspicion, and she will believe him. He's not going to let her go. She is going to have to stay firm with her decision and move on.

How old is she?
 
....Singing....."Everybody plays the fool sometimes"......

Tell her this. This is very true. At the same time advise her to decide how long she's willing to "play the fool".
 
Why is she now FB friends with the other woman? Or am I misunderstanding something?

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Ivonnovi said:
....Singing....."Everybody plays the fool sometimes"......

Tell her this. This is very true. At the same time advise her to decide how long she's willing to "play the fool".
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OT, but I LOVE THIS SONG! Off to download it...

But yeah, I'm with the board on this one. Chuck the deuces and run!
 
"Who are you going to believe? Me or your lying eyes?" That's what he's saying. And on top of that, he throws in the "let's have a baby" only because he knows that's what she wants. He's being very manipulative.

My advice would be for her to believe her lying eyes. The fact that this is even an issue is an indication that something is wrong. Even if his story is true, it shows lack of sound judgement and consideration on his part. He isn't dumb. He's just trying to see what he can get away with. Furthermore, the trust is already damaged. It's going to wreck her emotions, self-esteem, etc. having to worry about the "what ifs."
 
texasqt said:
"Who are you going to believe? Me or your lying eyes?" That's what he's saying. And on top of that, he throws in the "let's have a baby" only because he knows that's what she wants. He's being very manipulative.

My advice would be for her to believe her lying eyes. The fact that this is even an issue is an indication that something is wrong. Even if his story is true, it shows lack of sound judgement and consideration on his part. He isn't dumb. He's just trying to see what he can get away with. Furthermore, the trust is already damaged. It's going to wreck her emotions, self-esteem, eyc. having to worry about the "what ifs."
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successful216 said:
Idk she wanted to believe the possibility they were just friends since nothing was going on in the picture. She just told me she spoke to him and he finally confessed to the picture. He just happened to see her and she wanted a picture and he said okay. He says he is sorry he realized he should not have done that since he is in a relationship with my friend. He says he wants to have a baby to prove to her she is the one for him :rolleyes: She said no, she doesn't want to add an innocent person into all this drama. You would think after getting back together so many times he would act right if he really didn't want to lose her again :nono: She says she had enough. I'm like how many chances can one person get?
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Girl.......... your friend better RUN, not walk away from him!!
 
Like the old saying, "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."

Tell her to run, not walk away from him. It'll hurt now, but later she'll count her many blessings.


If you don't like your position, change it. You are not a tree!
 
successful216 said:
Idk she wanted to believe the possibility they were just friends since nothing was going on in the picture. She just told me she spoke to him and he finally confessed to the picture. He just happened to see her and she wanted a picture and he said okay. He says he is sorry he realized he should not have done that since he is in a relationship with my friend. He says he wants to have a baby to prove to her she is the one for him :rolleyes: She said no, she doesn't want to add an innocent person into all this drama. You would think after getting back together so many times he would act right if he really didn't want to lose her again :nono: She says she had enough. I'm like how many chances can one person get?
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Of course nothing's gonna be going on in the picture! Unless they get down like that.....hehehe :lol:
 
So months--I think you said "over a year"--have passed and this is the SAME woman and he's saying that she's playin and he doesn't know what's going on? Um. No. Nobody is sweating him that hard and for that long and he isn't giving her something to go on. And the baby thing? What! Nooooooooooo, she needs to leave him alone. The baby wouldn't even make sense without the woman right now because....don't they still live in different countries? :look:
 
His responses are more than stupid. He doesn't even have any good excuses for this tomfoolery. That's a turnoff in itself!
 
Tell your friend to date other men. Period. She's bound to meet a better guy and forget the other lame.
 
What kind of stories are these? Are they in high school or something? They both need to just let it go and take some time off to do a little maturing...
 
And a baby is supposed to help this situation in his mind? That reasoning alone is enough to make me start walking and never look back. I mean....I'm cheating and to make it up to you I'll have a baby with you so I can just be a lame father as well.:rolleyes:
 
Marriages don't either.

If he's a cheater, he's not going to be faithful to her just because he marries her.:nono: She can be the one for him....and so can the other women he cheats on her with.

BEAUTYU2U said:
Stop the presses!!!

Did that **** say that for real?! Babies don't prove that. Marriages do. Your friend needs to run like hell.


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