My last break up was initiated by me after dealing with chronic lies, cheating, apologies and promises to do better for close to three years. The straw that broke the camel's back was when we were spending one night together and a call from a female came in requesting him to go out. It was after midnight. He started to get ready to head out despite my pleas and tears. The next day he called, apologizing, saying he realized he was in the wrong, blah blah blah....I said goodbye and never looked back. That was over a year ago. I broke up with dude that winter, met my fiance that spring (thank you OKCupid), got engaged early this year and we are currently planning our wedding and construction of our new home. My fiance is an architect/general contractor and is building a new home for us
. Meanwhile, the ex is still trying to reach out to me, begging and pleading for another chance. His number is blocked but he hassles my sister and mother ever so often.
When one door closes.... ...I've never been happier and am so glad I didn't settle.