Hairsnob
Deep Thinker
Sorry this is so long. I'm a little emotional tonight and my girlfriend didn't answer her phone and I just needed an ear to vent to. I posted a thread before about how men don't listen. Well, they also try to get in good with you before their birthday. Men get lonely too. They just try to stockpile their women to make sure they won't be alone. Uggh!
I have an ex that I broke up with several years ago and we keep in contact every now and then. I can handle the friendship but he always tries to convince me to get back with him (in between his relationships).
erplexed But that'll never happen.
Even if I was stuck on an island full of ugly elves and he was the only man.
Anyway, I was watching BBall Wives LA the other night about to watch the debate and this selfish buzzard texts me and doesn't listen when I said I was busy. How is he not watching the debate anyway??erplexed
Here's the convo:
8:46pm HIM: PSSSST!
8:53pm ME: Hey there
8:56pm HIM: How u be?
8:56pm ME: Good, watching my trash TV before the debate LOL. How about u?
8:57pm HIM: Oh, ok, just chillin.... starting my celebrating <--this is the lead-in so that I can know it's his birthday
8:58pm ME: Celebrating what?
8:59pm HIM: B-day..Tues next week
9:00pm ME: Oh, u all early
9:00pm HIM: Always woman
9:01pm ME: Nothin wrong with that (I was hoping this was the end of the convo. The debate was just starting. But noooo....this dude wants to get all emotional now)
9:01pm HIM: True... tell me something and don't get freaked out and s*hit like u do...I still like your silly tail and always have...nothing behind it so don't get paranoid..and I'm not drunk
9:06pm ME: You're funny. I'm not paranoid. And why aren't you watching the debate?
9:09pm HIM: the second one was good enough for me. Just saying I know how u get if u think someone's trying to get at u and you're not feeling them... I say what I feel
9:10pm ME: We can finish this convo after the debate
I never called him or text'd him after because I think he has some nerve thinking I'm dumb enough to fall for his emotional abuse. He's always checking in to see if I have a new man thinking i'll be desperate enough to fall for his crap just because I'm not seeing anyone. When I was head over heels for him years ago he gave me his arse to kiss and now he still thinks he got it like that? Yuck!!
As I always say, they always come running back. But usually you don't want them back when they do. I remember being depressed after our break-up and wondering why things happened the way they did. I learned not to question why God removes things that I thought I loved from my life and I look back and I can see clearly how he wasn't good for me. Although I'm sometimes impatient about finding the right one, I still don't doubt one bit that I will meet him when it's the right time.
Just felt like sharing. Feel free to share your stories/vents, etc.
I have an ex that I broke up with several years ago and we keep in contact every now and then. I can handle the friendship but he always tries to convince me to get back with him (in between his relationships).
erplexed But that'll never happen. Even if I was stuck on an island full of ugly elves and he was the only man.Anyway, I was watching BBall Wives LA the other night about to watch the debate and this selfish buzzard texts me and doesn't listen when I said I was busy. How is he not watching the debate anyway??
erplexedHere's the convo:
8:46pm HIM: PSSSST!
8:53pm ME: Hey there
8:56pm HIM: How u be?
8:56pm ME: Good, watching my trash TV before the debate LOL. How about u?
8:57pm HIM: Oh, ok, just chillin.... starting my celebrating <--this is the lead-in so that I can know it's his birthday
8:58pm ME: Celebrating what?
8:59pm HIM: B-day..Tues next week
9:00pm ME: Oh, u all early
9:00pm HIM: Always woman
9:01pm ME: Nothin wrong with that (I was hoping this was the end of the convo. The debate was just starting. But noooo....this dude wants to get all emotional now)
9:01pm HIM: True... tell me something and don't get freaked out and s*hit like u do...I still like your silly tail and always have...nothing behind it so don't get paranoid..and I'm not drunk
9:06pm ME: You're funny. I'm not paranoid. And why aren't you watching the debate?
9:09pm HIM: the second one was good enough for me. Just saying I know how u get if u think someone's trying to get at u and you're not feeling them... I say what I feel
9:10pm ME: We can finish this convo after the debate
I never called him or text'd him after because I think he has some nerve thinking I'm dumb enough to fall for his emotional abuse. He's always checking in to see if I have a new man thinking i'll be desperate enough to fall for his crap just because I'm not seeing anyone. When I was head over heels for him years ago he gave me his arse to kiss and now he still thinks he got it like that? Yuck!!
As I always say, they always come running back. But usually you don't want them back when they do. I remember being depressed after our break-up and wondering why things happened the way they did. I learned not to question why God removes things that I thought I loved from my life and I look back and I can see clearly how he wasn't good for me. Although I'm sometimes impatient about finding the right one, I still don't doubt one bit that I will meet him when it's the right time.
Just felt like sharing. Feel free to share your stories/vents, etc.
