Black. WI.
Idk what to make of this but it could be the opposite of what we're thinking. Maybe she hates him and is trying to get him to do something inappropriate so that mom will give him the boot.
I hope the family seeks professional intervention immediately. The mother should not be the one trying to figure out the root cause of this behavior. An objective, trained professional should be the only one investigating. Regardless of why the child is displaying this behavior, the girl should be removed from the home, immediately. It is clear that she needs treatment and I believe she should seek that treatment at an in-care facility.
I would encourage the mom to continue to seek professional help for her child, someone who can breakthrough to the child. I typically don't like sharing personal info, but in this case, I think it is necessarily. My grandfather suffered from severe schizophrenia. At the same time, he was very intelligent, he likely had a genius level IQ. My family would get him committed to mental institutions on a regular basis, however, due to his high IQ, he would routinely get released after the 72 hour hold. My grandfather literally memorized every bit of medical literature he got his hands on, and was always able to work the system. I say this all to say, we as a family knew that he needed help, so we exhausted every psychologist and treatment facility we had access to. There is something/someone who will breakthrough to the child. Again, she needs to be removed from the home immediately! Whether her behavior is due to sexual abuse or something else, her behavior has reached a critical level where she should be removed from the environment so that an evaluation can be performed and a recovery plan put into place. Now, with my grandfather, we had to compile our own evidence of behavior to take to the professionals. That is something else that can be considered. I can't stress enough that the girl should be removed immediately.I doubt it. She is always hugging him and putting her head on his shoulders. One time soneone told me she was sitting in his lap when she was 15.
The mother tried to get her help. The psych told her the girl is only telling her what she thinks the psych wants to hear. The girl is a regular runaway and thief.
Something told me that was probably the case, which is why I shared the story of my grandfather. I know it is easier to give hypothetical advice than something actionable, so here are some actionable steps the mother could take. The mother needs to call the local police department and the girl's psychiatrist/psychologist. I'm unsure if there is anything the justice system can do, but perhaps they can guide the mom in the right direction since clearly the girl is displaying signs of some mental disturbance. Same thing with the therapist. The mom needs to find out how the network of professionals interact and express the dire circumstances.She is highly intelligent. Speaks a few languages fluently. Way more intelligent than her mother and her mother has multiple university degrees.
She sounds like a psycopath/sociopath.She is highly intelligent. Speaks a few languages fluently. Way more intelligent than her mother and her mother has multiple university degrees.
I truly pray that everyone is receiving the help they need. What a tough situation.