Over the years....
Mane n Tail liquid detangler was awesome for me. My hair is fine and tangles easily. I liked the liquid when I used it because it didn't seem to make my strands too gummy.
Then I tried and liked using Apple Cider Vinegar rinse (heavily diluted with water as a final rinse). This was a wonderful detangler, but left me smelling like a pickle until my hair was dry. I would go workout at the gym (sweating in my hair) and smell like a pickle again. Had to let that go....
More recently, I use and love Keracare's Hydrating/Detangling shampoo with the Keracare Humecto when I want to DC. I use Sally's Miracle 7 Leave-in Silk (Lavender colored bottle) on top. My hair melts apart.
When I'm not doing a DC, and I'm using a quickie rinse-out, I still wash with the Keracare Hydrating/Detangling, but will condition with either Aussie Moist (3-Minute) or with Nexxus Humectress, and then use the Miracle 7 silk leave-in.
I don't have issues with detangling any longer.
Hope that helps