blackbarbie
New Member
I just saw my brother for the first time in a long time (probably only twice since I got my last t/u on Dec. 7). I am at almost 20 weeks post and decided I was going to stretch it out another 4 weeks. I have been just wearing my hair pinned up, but not necessarily a bun though. He asked what I was doing, if I was transitioning (guess b/c I had asked him a lot of questions about it before).....Told him I would be to see him in 4 weeks. His response was: It looks fine; a little wavy on the sides, but it looks fine to me. If you can go without getting a perm this long, why put one in there right now, especially with the summer weather and you may end up wearing it up most times anyway? I tell women all the time, don't just get a perm at 8 weeks just b/c that's what you're used to, but if you have gone this long, your hair isn't shedding, it's still manageable, if I were you, I would stretch it out over the summer since you were going to be wearing it up anyway and if you want it straightened out for a special occasion, just come in and I can straighten your roots out for you."
It will be 6 months once I get my t/u if I make it to June 7th and we talked about me going natural again and he said a lot of his clients are opting to go natural and he advises it if that's what they want to do and tells them that it could be an easy transition if they can manage the two textures and keep the hair moisturized very well. (which is something he DIDN"T have to tell me; learned that from you ladies!)
I guess the point I was trying to make was that I would have suspected a stylist to have a totally different point of view on stretching and it was refreshing to hear him take this approach to it. (although he did say that stretching this long may not be for everyone, to listen to your hair.....which we all already know that too!!!)
It will be 6 months once I get my t/u if I make it to June 7th and we talked about me going natural again and he said a lot of his clients are opting to go natural and he advises it if that's what they want to do and tells them that it could be an easy transition if they can manage the two textures and keep the hair moisturized very well. (which is something he DIDN"T have to tell me; learned that from you ladies!)
I guess the point I was trying to make was that I would have suspected a stylist to have a totally different point of view on stretching and it was refreshing to hear him take this approach to it. (although he did say that stretching this long may not be for everyone, to listen to your hair.....which we all already know that too!!!)