DayStar
Well-Known Member
Now i know we have alot of IR thread already, but, i was talking to my roomate last night about my dilemmas with the men i have dated and she was basically asking me what guys i typically date, and i told her and she asked me...well "do you date outside your race...would you ever?"..and i told her :Nono: "no pink penis over here": and she said.."what if you are blocking your blessing because you are so hung up on color that you cannot notice a GOOD HONEST MAN when he comes your way....you are refuting a possible blessing"...i agreed...I told her of my IDEAL family in my head..but i have come to the realization that you dont get EVERYTHING that perfect...life introduces you to new things everyday....and what you may want doesnt equate what you need or what is best for you..black or white....but i cant see past color..and that translates to inferiority in my mind. We talked for about 2 hours. I have said time and time again that I was going to be open minded and then when the opportunity hit i was like NOPE..i have an image of "other" men lusting after me in a sexual way, and believe it or not sometimes i think of slavery and when the men use to rape the women...i know, these are the images i have of the "other"...i have come to the realization maybe late that love and compatibility is the only thing i want right now...im not ruling out any man..i just am going to be more open... oh..my roomates white thanks for letting me share.
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