Starting Dating Again and Need Hair Advice

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w332

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Hi Ladies!

I am about to start dating again soon, and I need my hair to grow like 6 inches in 3 months because I'm giving myself 3 months to get prepared. Since this is a hair forum, does anyone have any suggestions on what WILL work? I just don't want to resort to extensions...I want to go the hair salon and then on a date with the confidence that I look natural:yep:!
 
That's a little unrealistic unless your hair already grows extremely fast. Maybe check out the 12 in 12 thread? They are aiming to grow at least 1 inch every month.
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=591027


Also..regardless of how long your hair is..confidence is all you need. I rocked a short chin length bob and went on just as many dates I did with BSB length hair.

Good luck!!
 
I know I am asking alot with this request, but I believe all things are possible....

Thank you! I'm going to check out the 12 in 12 thread.
 
Have you tried taking Nioxin? Maybe you get at least 2-3 inches. Check the Nioxin thread too.
 
I am confused... what does the length of your hair have to do with dating success? I am also not sure those of us who frequent the Relationship forum have any fast-growing hair tips that the women in the Hair forum wouldn't have.
 
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I know I am asking alot with this request, but I believe all things are possible....

Thank you! I'm going to check out the 12 in 12 thread.
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No problem..

As for growing hair faster, here are a few suggestions:


Drink at least 60-80 oz of water daily
Increase protein intake
Scalp Massages
Exercise
Take a Multi-Vitamin Daily
Maybe try Biotin (but you have to drink A LOT of water)
Sulfur infused Oil on your scalp

If I can think of more, I will add.
 
Thanks Ladies!

With regards to hair and dating, some people think guys like long hair on women. I'm just trying to stack the decks in my favor in case it is true. Long hair can also make a woman feel more feminine. Just my two cents, but to each his own!
 
If you're that self-conscious wear a wig, or date a man who would like your hair just the way it is :look: it's real simple
 
Honey you can have hair or no hair and if a man wants you he will. I know we try to do all we can to make ourselves appear more attractive but that isn't reality. For instance after a 6 yr hiatus from men folk my special friend found me where in the damn gym sweating my tail off. I looked a mess daily but he still say me beauty so hair that grows or not will not deter a real man who is good with him self. Why want a man who only wants the external anyway. Like if you are to find a dude due to hair and you lose hair he could bounce.
 
I think it's true that hair doesn't make the woman. I'm just trying to put my best foot forward, and I think I will look and feel more feminine. That's just my thought about it. I have had long and short hair, and I know it's all superficial...but men can be superficial at times, and sometimes (for some men), something as superficial as hair can spark an interest that leads to a real connection.
 
I'm just confused... if a man asks you out tomorrow while you are planning to grow the 6 inches of hair you want in the next 3 months, will you say no?
 
w332, I feel you. I understand that you want to look and feel your best. You got great suggestions so far but know that your hair is going to grow regardless.
 
I don't think you have to wait until you have long hair to date, but I understand where you are coming room since many men are about looks. I know any woman can attract a man and confidence matters, but certain physical features (body types, hair length/color/texture, eye color, skin color, teeth, faces, etc etc) are preferred on a whole a lot more than others. If you want to maximize your dating options, it's best to look your best and play up your features as best as you can.
 
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Thanks for understanding ladies!

I'm just trying to give myself a little time to get into my best shape before seriously trying to meet someone...instead of working and going straight home like I mostly do now.
 
w332, I think it's a valid concern, and I do agree that most men like long hair BUT, you don't need long hair to get dates. There are countless other ways that a man can be attracted to you.

It also sounds like you prefer long hair because you feel more feminine with it. To that I say, wear the hairstyle that makes you feel more confident.
 
LOL I think this thread is funny :lol:

OP I totally get what you're asking. Confidence is a huge component of attraction so if long hair is what you think you need to get there, then I'm all for it. Its no different than when ppl go on diets and lose weight to make themselves feel more attractive.

Unfortunately I have no tips on superfast hair growth, but like others have said... the main hair forum would be a good place to start.
 
Hmm. You will have to wait it out if you don't want to go down the extensions route.

Personally I have alopecia and I don't think I will meet loads of men walking around with a twa with missing spots:look: Although I have a nice spirit:look:

I've found my bob wig seems to attract more guys because it suits the shape of my face so thats where I'm aiming to stop with my hair goal. Short natural hair can work for a lot of women. Just look nice, smell nice, dress nice and be confident. Think it will be OK.
 
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Vanthie said:
Hmm. You will have to wait it out if you don't want to go down the extensions route.

Personally I have alopecia and I don't think I will meet loads of men walking around with a twa with missing spots:look: Although I have a nice spirit:look:

I've found my bob wig seems to attract more guys because it suits the shape of my face so thats where I'm aiming to stop with my hair goal. Short natural hair can work for a lot of women. Just look nice, smell nice, dress nice and be confident. Think it will be OK.
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This :yep:
 
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