Hi Soslychic, yes, I'm the one that posted the Sta-Sof-Fro thread and yes, it's a GREAT product and the price is very nice as well! But yes, your hair will be so soft it won't hold any type of curl or style. I tried to do twists and even slept in them overnight but my hair was just wayyyyy too soft when I took it down. Then when I tried to finger comb it out it just sort of went limp and straight. But again, it was very very soft and silky and very moisturized! This is why I say it's a great product if you're wearing a protective style like a bun, because then you're wearing your hair up and away. So this way, yes, the Sta-Sof-Fro will keep your hair super duper moisturized and super duper soft!! I never thought I'd say "oh no, my hair is too soft!!!" Its' a great problem to have! Oh, I wouldn't blow dry with it because again, it's so super softening. It's for when you're not going to wear your hair out or expect your hair to "do anything" other than just lay soft and flat in a nicely secured bun getting moisturized all day long! Hope this helps!