Sooo.... here's my inquiry:
Here are these two women in ministry (Juanita Bynum and Paula White) going through some very challenging times. One speculation is that the cause(s) for these challenging situations is because these two women OVERSHADOWED their husbands in terms of success in the public eye....
Is it impossible to have a fulfilling career along with a healthy and successful marriage and family?
I'm well aware of the role of the woman in the household and how the man is to be the head of the household, priest of the home. I have seen this in action in my home with my parents as well as my spiritual parents. I'll even go as far to speculate (IMHO) that my spiritual mom (pastor's wife) could do even more in ministry (preaching, traveling, etc.) with the support of her husband, but she seems to make choices that allows her to remain in the shadows of her husband. She does minister and she does a lot, but I know she could do more...but she's made the conscious choice that marriage and family come before any church ministry per se, which is the wise way to go because a wife and mother's first ministry is to her family.... She's one of the most humble women I know on the planet....
I'm curious as to how to think about this.... How to prepare myself 'cause I know I'm supposed to do great things. Also, one of the parts of my prayer/profession of faith is that the Lord's plan for my marriage is that my husband has a ministry/career/profession that I FIT IN...that I'm compatible to.... I ask this because I am sure that my husband has an ESTABLISHED career/profession/ministry as I am beyond the "traditional" marriage age....
Your thoughts?
Here are these two women in ministry (Juanita Bynum and Paula White) going through some very challenging times. One speculation is that the cause(s) for these challenging situations is because these two women OVERSHADOWED their husbands in terms of success in the public eye....
Is it impossible to have a fulfilling career along with a healthy and successful marriage and family?
I'm well aware of the role of the woman in the household and how the man is to be the head of the household, priest of the home. I have seen this in action in my home with my parents as well as my spiritual parents. I'll even go as far to speculate (IMHO) that my spiritual mom (pastor's wife) could do even more in ministry (preaching, traveling, etc.) with the support of her husband, but she seems to make choices that allows her to remain in the shadows of her husband. She does minister and she does a lot, but I know she could do more...but she's made the conscious choice that marriage and family come before any church ministry per se, which is the wise way to go because a wife and mother's first ministry is to her family.... She's one of the most humble women I know on the planet....
I'm curious as to how to think about this.... How to prepare myself 'cause I know I'm supposed to do great things. Also, one of the parts of my prayer/profession of faith is that the Lord's plan for my marriage is that my husband has a ministry/career/profession that I FIT IN...that I'm compatible to.... I ask this because I am sure that my husband has an ESTABLISHED career/profession/ministry as I am beyond the "traditional" marriage age....
Your thoughts?