SPINOFF: I *WILL* meet my future husband in 2010!

Renewed1

Renewed1

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For those of you ladies who have affirmations to meet your husband in 2010.

What are you going to do to MEET him?

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I never really dated, my two boyfriends were quick relationships...they asked I said yes, without thinking....I was young and those relationships were LONG. Thank God those are done and over.

Therefore, I never dated (I'm 33), I never been taken out by a guy that is genuinely interested in me or pursued me.

So in 2010, I'm going to have my first date!!!

I'm going to sign up for eharmony first then match.com and other Christrian websites.....I currently live in Colorado and I will be making a move to San Diego. But I figure while I'm in Colorado, I can start praticing.

I'm going to ALWAYS look my best everytime I walk out the door. I'm going to see how I can go about participating in various events (although, much doesn't happen in this state).

But praticing and putting forth effort YIELDS RESULTS!!
 
I think this is awesome - and it goes hand in hand with a challenge that I am getting ready to set up :yep: Good luck to you!!!
 
Good goals. Be careful with Eharmony and match.com. Especially match.com. Most guys on match.com just want a booty call. I speak from experience but you never know what God has in store for you.
 
Great thread!! :up:

I'm right up there with you girl! Count me in! :woot: :woot: :party:

I don't know why, but I just feel like 2010 is MY year!!! :yep: I've learned a lot these past few years, I've gone through heartbreak, I've started the healing process and have moved on further than ever before, and so I am READY for love!! :grin: :grin:

A lot of changes will be taking place this year, and I'm excited! :grin:

I FEEL like I am going to meet my husband (or at least a serious boyfriend) in 2010!!!

Whoo hooo! ~*~*~*~*~*~2010 Here I come!!!~*~*~*~*~*~ :grin:
 
Good luck to you; but I see you are primarily focusing on online dating sites, maybe you should look other places as well. Join a gym, take some continuum education classes, go to a poetry lounge, etc. You need to look in more social environments to get a better chance. And when you go to these places don't look as though you are on a prow. Make it look as natural as possible.
 
I'm a member of both eHarmony and Match.com and have had minimal success. Are there other *SAFE* online dating sites out there?
 
^^^ Have you tried PerfectMatch? I haven't but I've heard good things about them...I think this is Pepper Schwartz site...
 
makeupgirl said:
Good goals. Be careful with Eharmony and match.com. Especially match.com. Most guys on match.com just want a booty call. I speak from experience but you never know what God has in store for you.
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I haven't found this to be true. As with anything, careful screening and scoping out a guy's intentions goes a long way....
 
Anyone ever tried this dating service? I read an ad in one of those airplane mags...and it seemed interesting (though I'm not actively participating in the dating scene right now). Out of curiosity, I checked out the website briefly and their approach is a little different (not sure if there are fees involved). Just thought I'd throw that website out there...just in case some were looking for more dating options/meeting new people.
 
Dare~to~Dream said:
Anyone ever tried this dating service? I read an ad in one of those airplane mags...and it seemed interesting (though I'm not actively participating in the dating scene right now). Out of curiosity, I checked out the website briefly and their approach is a little different (not sure if there are fees involved). Just thought I'd throw that website out there...just in case some were looking for more dating options/meeting new people.
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I remember hearing about them a few years back. I was in grad school at the time and couldn't swing the price they quoted. I remember thinking it was really expensive. :nono:
 
sunshinebeautiful said:
I remember hearing about them a few years back. I was in grad school at the time and couldn't swing the price they quoted. I remember thinking it was really expensive. :nono:
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Yeah...of course it would be...but I guess it makes me a little more interested (because if I'm paying a certain price...then the service should deliver right?). *Shrugs* Since I'm not on the market, I won't be using the service anytime soon.
 
Changed said:
For those of you ladies who have affirmations to meet your husband in 2010.

What are you going to do to MEET him?

================================================
I never really dated, my two boyfriends were quick relationships...they asked I said yes, without thinking....I was young and those relationships were LONG. Thank God those are done and over.

Therefore, I never dated (I'm 33), I never been taken out by a guy that is genuinely interested in me or pursued me.

So in 2010, I'm going to have my first date!!!

I'm going to sign up for eharmony first then match.com and other Christrian websites.....I currently live in Colorado and I will be making a move to San Diego. But I figure while I'm in Colorado, I can start praticing.

I'm going to ALWAYS look my best everytime I walk out the door. I'm going to see how I can go about participating in various events (although, much doesn't happen in this state).

But praticing and putting forth effort YIELDS RESULTS!!
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i know a handsome somebody in denver, single,brown skin, bald head, hazel eyes, saved...where r u located?
 
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Dare~to~Dream said:
Yeah...of course it would be...but I guess it makes me a little more interested (because if I'm paying a certain price...then the service should deliver right?). *Shrugs* Since I'm not on the market, I won't be using the service anytime soon.
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Yeah, I actually wouldn't mind the price if I could afford it. I wasn't in the position then as a grad student and I'm still looking for FT work so maybe I'll look into it later.
 
I've decided to start doing things that I've always wanted to do (especially after I finish this last class). I know once I'm out and about I will meet men with interests like my own. When I look back the men I met that were good and wanted me I wasn't looking for it. I just didn't have the sense to keep one. Somewhere I picked up the idea that love was supposed to hurt- and oh boy did it, but now I know better. I know more about myself and what I want and what I can bring to a realtionship. I feel optimistic that I will meet someone this year.
 
I think I may have met someone but I'm not jumping to any conclusions just yet cuz it is too soon to tell. Right now we are having fun and enjoying each other's company and I'm just coasting and letting things happen, no worries or fussing over the what-ifs.
 
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