I have been married 4 years however I been w/ my SO for a total of 14 years. I spice things up by NOT getting to comfortable. Meaning we kiss all the time kiss meaning kissing, not just hello/ goodbye kiss. I found that to be a great bonding moment. I dress up like we’re about to go on a date, I send naughty text messages. When I’m not in the mood I visualize about anything that would turn me on. I’m also taken pool dancing classes and when I felt comfortable I invited him to show him what I learned, just to name a few.
My moto is act like a lady and THINK like a (some) man.