shmmr
New Member
Please take me back!!
2 year Sob story follows:
I started out at shoulder length, natural. healthy hair - learned so much on these boards.Decided to go texlaxed. Met with LHCF recommended stylist. Talked at length about goals with her. A week later, she relaxed me straight anyway. So then I was transitioning to texlaxed. Hair was healthy, went to APL (sorry no pics cause I was all that
. I let my membership lax cause I thought I had it down. Then it started to break off at demarkation line of straight and textlaxed. Got it in my head to dye it black (even though I knew permanent color was not for me from past exp- what was I thinking!)- after the Bigen it came out big time. *sigh* About 2 months ago I got it cut to just above shoulder length. Just got it cut again last week, just below chin length.
So where does that leave me now - HOT MESS! thats where I am.
My hair is fine (always has been) but now its uneven. I have pieces in the middle crown that are maybe 4 inches long. I can tell where the damaged parts are , not all the damage is at the ends after the dye- honestly it probably needs to be cut again, but I can't bring myself...to top it off, I don't really know how to style it (its supposed to be in some sort of bob but like I said, its a hot mess - pls don't ask for pics, cause there's no way i"m doing that now.) The only good thing is that I've got my texlax procedure down. I'm trying not to use heat so I pincurl, but its a craps shoot as to whether it comes out good or not.
I'm very disappointed about how my hair looks and its condition. Its a hot mess and I should've known better than to dye it. I thought I was doing the right thing by going to a stylist to texlax it, but since then I've been doing it myself. Pls take me back and help me. Its a terrible feeling to go out and not like how you look.
Shmmr.
2 year Sob story follows:
I started out at shoulder length, natural. healthy hair - learned so much on these boards.Decided to go texlaxed. Met with LHCF recommended stylist. Talked at length about goals with her. A week later, she relaxed me straight anyway. So then I was transitioning to texlaxed. Hair was healthy, went to APL (sorry no pics cause I was all that
. I let my membership lax cause I thought I had it down. Then it started to break off at demarkation line of straight and textlaxed. Got it in my head to dye it black (even though I knew permanent color was not for me from past exp- what was I thinking!)- after the Bigen it came out big time. *sigh* About 2 months ago I got it cut to just above shoulder length. Just got it cut again last week, just below chin length. So where does that leave me now - HOT MESS! thats where I am.
My hair is fine (always has been) but now its uneven. I have pieces in the middle crown that are maybe 4 inches long. I can tell where the damaged parts are , not all the damage is at the ends after the dye- honestly it probably needs to be cut again, but I can't bring myself...to top it off, I don't really know how to style it (its supposed to be in some sort of bob but like I said, its a hot mess - pls don't ask for pics, cause there's no way i"m doing that now.) The only good thing is that I've got my texlax procedure down. I'm trying not to use heat so I pincurl, but its a craps shoot as to whether it comes out good or not.
I'm very disappointed about how my hair looks and its condition. Its a hot mess and I should've known better than to dye it. I thought I was doing the right thing by going to a stylist to texlax it, but since then I've been doing it myself. Pls take me back and help me. Its a terrible feeling to go out and not like how you look.
Shmmr.
back
You just gotta dust yourself off and start growing. Your hair was looking great before and it will come back before you know it.
, but I'm glad I'm back and on track!
You come out the woodworks starting LOL
I'll send you a PM when I get off work this evening 
