Sooo, what if you were dating someone...

[PopLife]

and he has expressed on more than one occasion how he despises when women wear wigs...while you have worn a half wig on and off for the past year you guys have been dating.

Do you continue to let him believe you're wearing a weave and pray to God it never falls off or take it off one day in front of him and
hope this isn't his reaction .

In other words is it deceptive to let him continue to believe you are wearing a weave when in fact it's a wig?

 

[kandake]

Right after he says "I really hate chicks that wear wigs" I would say, "Really?!?!! I wear them all the time. Actually, I'm wearing one right now!"

 

[Lucie]

I don't wear wigs. If I did, I would remind him of certain events we went out together and the fact that I was wearing a wig/weave.

I am sure that he's going like something I don't particularly care for, but I am not going to despise him for it.

 

[Cendra]

Just fess up the next time he brings it up. Not like you're not taking care of your own hair, you're using wigs for protection. If he doesn't get it.....like Lucie said, there will be things that you're not keen on that he will like.

 

[MyCoilsGoBoing]

Meh, I would have told him from the beginning that I wear wigs/weaves as a protective style for my hair. But since that's not case, just tell him when he brings it up again.

 

[RedVelvet310]

I don't know what I'd do honestly, I would hope that conversation occurs before the first date so I can keep note to cross him off of my list of men to date ... I have only met certain men like that (with such deep distaste for false hair) and they are usually the same type of men & usually not my type.

 

[GreenEyedJen]

Wait, so he's okay with weaves, and not wigs? erplexed

Did he have a bad experience? Did one fall in his soup?

 

[LadyPaniolo]

Wait, so he's okay with weaves, and not wigs? erplexed

Did he have a bad experience? Did one fall in his soup?

Lmao!!

Seriously, let him see your natural hair in good condition one time and then bring it up. It's much easier after they see that you aren't Bald Headed Annie under there.

 

[YaniraNaturally]

Wait, so he's okay with weaves, and not wigs? erplexed

Did he have a bad experience? Did one fall in his soup?

My thoughts exactly

As my Mom would say it's "six in one, half a dozen in the next."

 

[doll-baby]

Unless he's paying for your hair its none of his business. If he hasn't detected that you were wearing a wig then continue on as you have been. However if he asks you point blank "are you wearing a wig?" then be truthful. I never understood men that were so concerned with how a woman wears her hair.