levette
Well-Known Member
I want to clear up first.... I am just repeating what I heard a minister say last week: re dating. It was somewhat
1. He said from a Christian standpoint...dating is not a biblical principal- only a man-made one. People in bible time did not date..parents arranged the marriages--He then added that realistically teenagers and young adultsshould not date unless they are ready for marriage ( to avoid sexual pressures)
2. He also mentioned in terms of marriage-- Love is not enough to keep a marriage together He said that COMMITMENT.. is what keeps marriages together like the commitment that God gives to us for unconditional love. He said lack of commitment dooms many marriages who will call it quits for trivial things.
3. He said that our culture has caused us to forget about " being a virgin when you are married.. He stated that there is no such thing as "safe sex" outside of marriage because of the many risks one takes when sleeping with a person who isn't their spouse.
4. This may be controversial but he did a slide show of std's. I didn't know that one could get oral cancer of the mouth from giving oral se.....
What are your thoughts?
1. He said from a Christian standpoint...dating is not a biblical principal- only a man-made one. People in bible time did not date..parents arranged the marriages--He then added that realistically teenagers and young adultsshould not date unless they are ready for marriage ( to avoid sexual pressures)
2. He also mentioned in terms of marriage-- Love is not enough to keep a marriage together He said that COMMITMENT.. is what keeps marriages together like the commitment that God gives to us for unconditional love. He said lack of commitment dooms many marriages who will call it quits for trivial things.
3. He said that our culture has caused us to forget about " being a virgin when you are married.. He stated that there is no such thing as "safe sex" outside of marriage because of the many risks one takes when sleeping with a person who isn't their spouse.
4. This may be controversial but he did a slide show of std's. I didn't know that one could get oral cancer of the mouth from giving oral se.....
What are your thoughts?