So, we "matched" on speed dating . . . now what?

Email them or let them email me?

  • let them contact you

    Votes: 25 96.2%
  • go 'head, girl, and email the guys

    Votes: 1 3.8%

  • Total voters
    26
  • Poll closed .

Glib Gurl

Well-Known Member
I just got an email that I "matched" with a few different guys on speed dating . . . they now have my informatino as well.

So, I'm wondering, do I wait on them to reach out to me or email them first?

I'm more inclined to let them email me . . . .
 
Oooooh, I'm doing speed dating in a few weeks.

I'd let them contact you...But if there is someone in specific that you had your eye on, I'd go ahead and hit them up.
 
Let them contact you, but stay on the dating scene, you know men can sometimes take forever to act. They have their own 3 day rule, or something or other.
 
Let them contact you, but stay on the dating scene, you know men can sometimes take forever to act. They have their own 3 day rule, or something or other.

Why is this?
some of them have an even longer rule than that... and right when you've forgotten them, they pop up!
 
Let them contact you, but stay on the dating scene, you know men can sometimes take forever to act. They have their own 3 day rule, or something or other.

ITA. Some have a 5+ day rule so keep on the go and don't let it drive you batty. If they are interested, they WILL contact you. Fact.
 
Thanks everyone. So far only one has reached out . . . and I am kind "meh" about him. But hey, you never know . . . .
 
if he was "meh" then why did you select him as a "match"?

i'm going to get some guts to do speed dating.... did you go alone? or with a friend? proly is best to go alone... so you don't pick the same guy....
 
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