So I went to a Birthday Party...

SuchMagnificent

SuchMagnificent

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last night.. I just awoke from a drunken sleep and just had to let yall know what happened. I was at a "hood spot" where everyone is kinda crowded around on the dance floor and its 10000 degrees. I was standing infront of 2 dudes and my Best Friend was facing me, sort of. All of a sudden I felt hands run thru my hair up to the base of my neck....I instantly froze. Best Friend: Whats wrong
Me: Someone just ran the fingers thru my hair!
Friend: Forreal! Who!
Me: Dunno, but im pretty sure one of the guys behind me..
Friend: Which one, him....(points at guy)
Friend to guy: Did you tuch my friends hair?
Guy: Yeah..Im sorry, it was so pretty and I had to make sure it was hers...

WTF!!! You just couldnt ask me...AAARRRRGGGHHH..I was so pissed but I was kinda creeped out to. I just continued to move thru the crowd..I heard my bf telling him off. Why it gotta be like that?
 
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ARE YOU KIDDING ME!@? That is just awful. I hope you told his *** off.

A little off topic....But I work for the CTA as a bus driver and I got off my bus and walked across the street to the store. I heard someone say, "Excuse me" but I didn't pay attention because I didn't think they were talking to me.

All of a sudden, this chick puts her hand on my shoulder...

I turned around and swung on her ***....(I missed lol) and she was shocked as hell.
She said..."I just wanted to know where I can catch the Clark street bus!"

Why do people think they can put their hands on you PERIOD?!?
 
SuchMagnificance said:
last night.. I just awoke from a drunken sleep and just had to let yall know what happened. I was at a "hood spot" where everyone is kinda crowded around on the dance floor and its 10000 degrees. I was standing infront of 2 dudes and my Best Friend was facing me, sort of. All of a sudden I felt hands run ther my hair up to the base of my neck....I instantly froze. Best Friend: Whats wrong
Me: Someone just ran the fingers thru my hair!
Friend: Forreal! Who!
Me: Dunno, but im pretty sure one of the guys behind me..
Friend: Which one, him....(points at guy)
Friend to guy: Did you tuch my friends hair?
Guy: Yeah..Im sorry, it was so pretty and I had to make sure it was hers...




WTF!!! You just couldnt as me...AAARRRRGGGHHH..I was so pissed but I was kinda creeped out to. I just continued to move thru the crowd..I heard my bf telling him off. Why it gotta be like that?
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I would take it as a compliment then slap the shiatsu out of him....You go girl....You hair is niceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
 
I dont know why people cant use their mouth to communicate..Its just so caveman...My bf was like, Damn, you just couldnt ask her? I guess he thought I was gonna lie like I had something to prove...BTW he was so busted..No reason to lie buddy, I dont think he could afford to get my relaxer done.
 
Ewwww. *shudders* Ol' dude didn't have to put his grubby hands in your hair for a weave check. Yuck! (I'm always wondering if people even wash their hands :barf:)
 
What would make him think he should do that? Wth??

on the other hand you hair must have been looking really good:grin:
 
HoneyA said:
What would make him think he should do that? Wth??

on the other hand you hair must have been looking really good:grin:
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I hate to bring up some sh**, but I do believe it was the myth that you have to have a certain look,image to have a certain length of hair. Im a chocolate sister and I have had people ask me was my hair real since I was knee high. My hair wasnt looking real good to due to fact it was hot as hell..but i did a damp to dry flat iron and it was swanging!
 
:sick2: that makes me feel icky...i've slapped plenty of idiots for trying putting their hands on my friends...ugh...i can't be around people anymore lol
 
This is why you should carry a sock full of nickles in purse. So you could socked it too him. People have to much nerve and I was called a liar because I use to have this problem all the time with folks. Now I have on my game face and they don't touch me without asking.:wallbash:
 
Was the party at a club or at someones home?

If it was a club, let me know the name, so I can put my peoples onto the shady behavior going on in that place, since we're in houston too... :lachen::lachen:
 
supermodelsonya said:
ARE YOU KIDDING ME!@? That is just awful. I hope you told his *** off.

A little off topic....But I work for the CTA as a bus driver and I got off my bus and walked across the street to the store. I heard someone say, "Excuse me" but I didn't pay attention because I didn't think they were talking to me.

All of a sudden, this chick puts her hand on my shoulder...

I turned around and swung on her ***....(I missed lol) and she was shocked as hell.
She said..."I just wanted to know where I can catch the Clark street bus!"

Why do people think they can put their hands on you PERIOD?!?
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OMG!!:lachen:

Let that be a lesson to everyone, don't be touching folks! You might get hurt!:lachen:
 
I hate that also. I find it so disgusting. Some thing happened to me one time at a club. I had a braid out and everytime a guy tried to talk to me they would run their hands over my hair. It totally creeped me out. Like someone said above, who knows if they wash their hands :nono:
 
SuchMagnificance said:
last night.. I just awoke from a drunken sleep and just had to let yall know what happened. I was at a "hood spot" where everyone is kinda crowded around on the dance floor and its 10000 degrees. I was standing infront of 2 dudes and my Best Friend was facing me, sort of. All of a sudden I felt hands run thru my hair up to the base of my neck....I instantly froze. Best Friend: Whats wrong
Me: Someone just ran the fingers thru my hair!
Friend: Forreal! Who!
Me: Dunno, but im pretty sure one of the guys behind me..
Friend: Which one, him....(points at guy)
Friend to guy: Did you tuch my friends hair?
Guy: Yeah..Im sorry, it was so pretty and I had to make sure it was hers...

WTF!!! You just couldnt ask me...AAARRRRGGGHHH..I was so pissed but I was kinda creeped out to. I just continued to move thru the crowd..I heard my bf telling him off. Why it gotta be like that?
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OMG I just went through this!!!!!

I was in a club down here and on the way out. . .you know how you have dudes posted up on the wall. . .well, about 5 of them (YES, F I V E) ran their fingers through my hair! By the time the 3rd guy did it, I turned to them and was like "Okay yes, it's all mine. You don't have to weave check me" and they were all like "Oh for real? Come here" and that's when the OTHER 2 guys felt up in it.

I was sooooooooooooooooooo pissed.

It was so bad that this random guy that was behind me and I don't know. Tapped me on the shoulder and said, "I swear if one more dude touches your hair, I'm gonna go off I promise to God". . .and he was DEAD serious! He knew I was pissed.
 
I'm sorry for that to have happened to you, kinda jelly, but mostly sorry. :giggle:

I look forward to having that kinda hair where folks can hardly resist, but I do NOT want strangers touching.
 
My friends and I call that nape-rape.
In a club thats even more creepy than when it happens on the street or something.
 
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