I've been dating my so for a year and a half and he is a really sweet guy and he treats me very well. He has a lot of friends and associates from college and high school and a couple of friends that he has known since childhood. In social gatherings I have made an effort to be friendly and try to get to know his friends but they are very uninviting and there have been a few out of line incidents with some of them that rubbed me the wrong way.
1. Ignoring or not saying hello to me 2. I mentioned in a previous post about being poked at about not having a job 3. More recently he had a game night at his house and I went to greet a girl and I went to hug her and she made some remark about not knowing me so why was she hugging me I told her that I was _______ girlfriend and she claimed to not have remembered previously meeting me and I was just being polite. He has spoken to those individuals that were out of line. I also made a good effort of letting him have his guy time so I don't go to stuff all the time. At this point I have just stopped going to the social events that they have because I rather not put effort into trying to get to know people that don't want to be bothered with me. Once someone has made me feel uncomfortable I don't give second chances.
This is the first time he has been in a serious relationship and has brought a woman around any of his friends. My theory is that a lot of his friends are still immature and aren't ready to accept that he is in a relationship and isn't the single friend anymore that they can use to their convenience.
1. Ignoring or not saying hello to me 2. I mentioned in a previous post about being poked at about not having a job 3. More recently he had a game night at his house and I went to greet a girl and I went to hug her and she made some remark about not knowing me so why was she hugging me I told her that I was _______ girlfriend and she claimed to not have remembered previously meeting me and I was just being polite. He has spoken to those individuals that were out of line. I also made a good effort of letting him have his guy time so I don't go to stuff all the time. At this point I have just stopped going to the social events that they have because I rather not put effort into trying to get to know people that don't want to be bothered with me. Once someone has made me feel uncomfortable I don't give second chances.
This is the first time he has been in a serious relationship and has brought a woman around any of his friends. My theory is that a lot of his friends are still immature and aren't ready to accept that he is in a relationship and isn't the single friend anymore that they can use to their convenience.