Bun Mistress
Well-Known Member
So this week for the first time I was dumped. In my 28 years of living this never happened. Now this isn't about that. But everytime a relationships ends I think about the why. And on this one (AT FIRST) I had nothing.
But then I thought about me. In the past (a fe w years ago) I had no problem getting and keeping a man around. And I was retty much as busy as I am now, just busy in different ways. The only thingthat is different that I can tell is I'm way less drama than I used to be. Back in the day I had my man, my guys friends (that I was way to close too really), I was never available, wouldn't answer my phone all the time, or return texts. OK I was a little triffling.
Now all my drama is at work so I don't need/want any more, so now I'm less triffling. My last relationship could be called boring. But I liked it. We went out, movies, talked, he was sweet, then all the sudden. He called it quits.
When he told me about his last relationships it dawn on me. He wanted more drama.
Another example of men that like the drama are the guys I know from work we hang out sometimes. The single guys date 22 -24 year old and complain that they are needy or don't get their job ect (they don't seem to understand that their is a 6 to 8 year ag gap and that is the reason why). And the ones that are dating are with non professionals that are blonde and bouncy. Oh and like to argue.
So guys, like the drama. Do I need to be more drama? Cause I kinda refuse.
But then I thought about me. In the past (a fe w years ago) I had no problem getting and keeping a man around. And I was retty much as busy as I am now, just busy in different ways. The only thingthat is different that I can tell is I'm way less drama than I used to be. Back in the day I had my man, my guys friends (that I was way to close too really), I was never available, wouldn't answer my phone all the time, or return texts. OK I was a little triffling.
Now all my drama is at work so I don't need/want any more, so now I'm less triffling. My last relationship could be called boring. But I liked it. We went out, movies, talked, he was sweet, then all the sudden. He called it quits.
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When he told me about his last relationships it dawn on me. He wanted more drama.
Another example of men that like the drama are the guys I know from work we hang out sometimes. The single guys date 22 -24 year old and complain that they are needy or don't get their job ect (they don't seem to understand that their is a 6 to 8 year ag gap and that is the reason why). And the ones that are dating are with non professionals that are blonde and bouncy. Oh and like to argue.
So guys, like the drama. Do I need to be more drama? Cause I kinda refuse.
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