Signs it's time to break up?

...when you can no longer trust him.
...when you no longer have the desire to make it work.
...when you are fighting more than communicating.
...when you start doing harmful things to relieve the stress you get from the SO (excessive eating, drinking, shopping, losing sleep etc.)
...when the relation is no longer progressing after a period. Like an emotional rollercoaster
...IF YOUR SO HAS CAUSED YOU PHYSICAL/ EMOTIONAL HARM
...when you can't be yourself around that person without feeling like you will be judged
 
- When you don't speak all day long and feel happier because of it
- His breathing is the most God-forsaken annoying thing you have EVER heard
- You are always on your period or have a yeast infection when he wants to have sex
- Your vagina closes no matter how much lube is used
- You talk about what your next man is going to be like
- You organize your maxi pads just to do LOA for your impending period
- He calls you and you don't recognize his voice and seriously ask, "Who is this?"
- You have an emergency and only call him because the 48 other people were not able to help or were available
- You dumped him but haven't gotten around to telling him yet
- You feel sad to go home and see his stupid face
- You do not answer his calls unless he calls you from a number you do not recognize
- Whenever he says he calls you pretend you did not get all 23 of his VM and text mesages and blame your carrier
- If he says I love you, you say, "Thanks" and do not reiterate the same

I could go on. I am quite experienced, LOL.
 
Lucie said:
- When you don't speak all day long and feel happier because of it
- His breathing is the most God-forsaken annoying thing you have EVER heard
- You are always on your period or have a yeast infection when he wants to have sex
- Your vagina closes no matter how much lube is used
- You talk about what your next man is going to be like
- You organize your maxi pads just to do LOA for your impending period
- He calls you and you don't recognize his voice and seriously ask, "Who is this?"
- You have an emergency and only call him because the 48 other people were not able to help or were available
- You dumped him but haven't gotten around to telling him yet
- You feel sad to go home and see his stupid face
- You do not answer his calls unless he calls you from a number you do not recognize
- Whenever he says he calls you pretend you did not get all 23 of his VM and text mesages and blame your carrier
- If he says I love you, you say, "Thanks" and do not reiterate the same

I could go on. I am quite experienced, LOL.
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I love your list!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Lucie said:
-- His breathing is the most God-forsaken annoying thing you have EVER heard
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Grrrrrl Lucie I remember literally asking my exhusband why he has to inhale and exhale all the time. I was so sick of him. That is when I knew I had to be done with him. He gave me the craziest look ever and that is when he knew I was sick and tired of being sick and tired of his a$$.

Plus I was trying to figure out what I could do with the body, so no one would find him when I stopped all that inhaling and exhaling.
 
ThickHair said:
Grrrrrl @Lucie I remember literally asking my exhusband why he has to inhale and exhale all the time. I was so sick of him. That is when I knew I had to be done with him. He gave me the craziest look ever and that is when he knew I was sick and tired of being sick and tired of his a$$.
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:lachen: I know what you mean!
 
LOL ThickHair, I feel you. I remember my ex-husband breathing and I thought what is that annoying whistling sound?! I thought it was a small tea kettle boiling. It was his dang nose whistling. I was too through. It's funny how our hearing is selective when we are in lubbbbbbbbb!
 
You/He start finding reasons to spend less time,excuses excuses like I had to go help my take a bath,fix her a meal and then drive her to work type stuff.
Yall live together and one of yall start talking about moving.:look:
Yall start keeping secrets....:nono:
When you start comparing each other to ex's and not in a positive manner either.
Yall treat each other like an expense.:lol:
You start doing all the giving or compromising
Don't want to be alone together so you keep including cockblockers to the events. Cause you don't want no sexing.
 
Here is my list

When you start feeling lonely in the relationship.

When you start frequently questioning why you guys are together.

If at some point minds games start to enter into a relationship you better check it or call it quits. Don't jack with me just to see me get mad so you can have one up on me! Not cute!

When communication comes in the form of yelling.

If a certain issue keeps recurring.
 
When I wanted to run that negro over with his car it was time for me to exit stage left
When he told me he didn't see a point of me being a go gether and getting a degree
When I threw that flashlight and busted our window clean off it was time to exit before I catch a case.
 
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