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Should I just cut my hair again or keep treading along? Help me please.

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Bmack

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I am thinking about cutting my hair back to the length in my avatar and

the attached picture is my current length which is not all that much longer...it is touching my shoulders. I just am so damn bored. I was hoping to have a longer length by now but I keep trimming/cutting anyway. I am so damn bored with the bun:cry3:

I just do not know what to do, and I think I just stopped caring. :ohwell:

I am as a lost because I get hype when I see updates from you all..... but then when I deal with my hair I lose all that enthusiasm:confused:

Help me please. How the hell do you all do it???
 
The first thing you have to do if you want to see length is STAY AWAY FROM THE SCISSORS, unless it is necessary for a trim or duster. I say don't cut it and have fun with your hair by trying a new style every once in awhile, that way you get to enjoy your hair but still keep it protected most of the time.
Bmack said:
I am thinking about cutting my hair back to the length in my avatar and

the attached picture is my current length which is not all that much longer...it is touching my shoulders. I just am so damn bored. I was hoping to have a longer length by now but I keep trimming/cutting anyway. I am so damn bored with the bun:cry3:

I just do not know what to do, and I think I just stopped caring. :ohwell:

I am as a lost because I get hype when I see updates from you all..... but then when I deal with my hair I lose all that enthusiasm:confused:

Help me please. How the hell do you all do it???
 
Girl don't do it. You're just going thru a little "hair depression" right now. Everything will be okay. I'm going thru it right now too. When I feel this way I just go to Sally's and buy something.:)
 
Don't Do It...speaking from experience! I cut some layers in my hair back in July 06 and I regret it now. My hair would have been a lot longer by now.

Like Longhairliuva said you are going through a hair depression...and most of us go through that! Try some roller sets and flexi rod sets, you would be surprise how you can spice those curls up! Right now I wear cute roller sets so I don't pay attention to the length....So hang in their girlie and keep your length:)
 
Hair boredom is very real and I get it all the time. It sounds like you may just want to try a new look, so if I were you I would consider getting a weave or fall in the style you want to try. It'll give you a new look with having to sacrifice the progress that you've made. Braids would work too. HTH
 
Thanks for responding I feel like I am going crazy. I am like damn will it grow!!! It does I guess not fast enough:confused:

I actually just cut it down recently and its a shorter but not as short as the pic in my avatar. I just am like WTF. I do appreciate you all sharing advice with me because I would be in the bathroom otherwise with scissors in hand!!!!!

When i first started I wanted shoulder length I got it but I keep on with the damn trimming anytime bored and it seems to be therapeutic whenever I am upset ( I know that sounds crazy) however its true.

P.S. Sorry about the double post.

I decided to cut a little more...just a little above shoulders. Now my bang area and the rest of my hair is the same length. I know you all are like ??? I do thank you though for your advice. I really do appreciate it!
 
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