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Anytime I see a food product used this way I become concerned about a science project growing in my closet or applied to my hair. Won't it start fermenting?
I don't have a candle/wax warmer so I'm not sure how they work. You can heat something in it for days at a time? What would be a comparable substitute?
Ohhh... gotcha!Actually, I didn't. (If I understand your point correctly. Sometimes I get confused. Excuse me!)
Remember what I've said before, naturals with super long hair have regimens that are uncannily similar. It's not because we copy one another, either!
I came up with my own regimen. I've been using it for two years. But, there was some fine tuning I was missing. Once I figured out the fine-tuning, I was able to see the same process across the board of other long-haired naturals. Prior to tweaking my own process, I couldn't see or didn't notice these fine points and similarities. I taught my process to you after I was sure it was working for me. The main difference was the addition of Shea butter. The rest, I've been doing for years, but without the fine tuning and tweaks, I was staying at or above waist length for years!
Few questions to anyone who wants to share - any learnings from whipping up your own shea mixes in the prior year? Which specific oils do you like/dislike in your mixes? Do any of you bother to melt down the shea before whipping or do you find that is an unnecessary step? What is your staple mix?
I learned that i don’t need 50-11 oils in my mix, just 2: coconut oil and olive oil. All others are unnecessary. I only melt my mix down if it comes out grainy after whipping. I also add fruity or floral fragrances to make my mix smell better.Few questions to anyone who wants to share - any learnings from whipping up your own shea mixes in the prior year? Which specific oils do you like/dislike in your mixes? Do any of you bother to melt down the shea before whipping or do you find that is an unnecessary step? What is your staple mix?
Dabbed my ends tonight with a slither of conditioner before sealing with some Shea and setting on grey flexi rods. I also haphazardly put some on my 'partings'. I finished off by rubbing some rice bran oil onto my hands and lightly smoothing over the hair. All wrapped up for bed.
Putting this here tonight to mark my starting point. Blow out and trim November 22. Can see about a half inch of gray. Will measure tomorrow. Braided down, JBCO on the scalp Shea on the length. I want 8 inches next year this time!
Let’s gro
My starting point. I'll try to measure the same way every time. I hope I can get some back pictures next wash day. My nape surprised me by being MBL instead of BSL. Last time I flatironed, maybe 3 months ago, I was full BSL but not really touching MBL. My nape is now level with my navel when stretched. I think I'll be hip length by the end of the year.
I learned that i don’t need 50-11 oils in my mix, just 2: coconut oil and olive oil. All others are unnecessary. I only melt my mix down if it comes out grainy after whipping. I also add fruity or floral fragrances to make my mix smell better.
Few questions to anyone who wants to share - any learnings from whipping up your own shea mixes in the prior year? Which specific oils do you like/dislike in your mixes? Do any of you bother to melt down the shea before whipping or do you find that is an unnecessary step? What is your staple mix?
It was also started months earlier. I think this year’s thread will be even longer.
Gotta use up some of these shea mixes so I can make some more shea mixes. And you know that coffee mix is on the top of my list! I love anything I can use in both my skin and hair. So excited!!!
Made my first batch of whipped Shea Butter for this year today! I used beauty supply bought Shea, coconut oil and olive oil to whipped it up. I scented it with strawberry flavor. Yum!
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Not even gonna lie. I melt and apply. Whipped is better in terms of not making a mess, but I'm pregnant and I have a toddler so I do what I can while my husband entertains the kiddo
In last year’s thread I read that SB helps with gray hairs. I wasn’t sure I believed it but today I may have become a believer.
Every morning I use SB and then gel to slick my hair back into a bun. It’s almost time for my 8 week color to cover my grays but I don’t really have any that are visible. Yay!!!
Today I decided to wear my hair differentLy and I made a side part and there are gray hairs galore! I guess the SB is helping. I’m not sure how it works, I’m thinking since the front of my hair is so coated with SB and gel that when I wash the shampoo can’t get to my hair to strip the dye.
I learned that i don’t need 50-11 oils in my mix, just 2: coconut oil and olive oil. All others are unnecessary. I only melt my mix down if it comes out grainy after whipping. I also add fruity or floral fragrances to make my mix smell better.
In last year’s thread I read that SB helps with gray hairs. I wasn’t sure I believed it but today I may have become a believer.
Every morning I use SB and then gel to slick my hair back into a bun. It’s almost time for my 8 week color to cover my grays but I don’t really have any that are visible. Yay!!!
Today I decided to wear my hair differentLy and I made a side part and there are gray hairs galore! I guess the SB is helping. I’m not sure how it works, I’m thinking since the front of my hair is so coated with SB and gel that when I wash the shampoo can’t get to my hair to strip the dye.
@Daina I call bootie length for you next!
Yes, fairytales do come true...I would now like to present, one of the original Shea Made Hair Unicorns...
drumroll please......
herlucidsky!!!!
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I got her permission to use this photo today. She is at 40+ inches, of afro-textured hair and it's Shea Made! This is her latest photo, posted December 31st, 2018.
She's one of my old Fotki buddies.
Is your colors permanent or semi-permanent?
My color is demi- permanent
How is the pillowcase/satin bonnet/scarf situation with these Shea mixes?More like, "All 'greased' up for bed" . I think I'm the greasiest of us all!
Thank you! I appreciate all the knowledge you share, Shea butter is everythingBeautiful hair. The contrast of the black hair against your pink shirt is gorgeous!
Exactly!I want my hair growth to be even longer. Who knows, it probably will be. Shea butter helped me identify so many of major issues AND helped me reached lengths I've not reached before. So.....you never know, right?!
@ElevatedEnergy, yasssss thank you sis! Prayerfully from your lips to God's ears...you let me get some bootie hair, 2 or 3 times per year when I straighten I'm going be a mess in these streets! Or pregnant cause DH stay chasing when my hair down...hmmm might need to reduce straightening to 1 or 2 times cause I ain't making no more babies!!!