no matter what state my hair is in pre-wash, kchd automatically kicks it back into gear. tangles just rinse out, my hair melts like butter, i almost don't need to condition afterwards.
ORS Aloe Shampoo - its chelating, neutralizing AND it detangles like crazy, I used it when relaxing a friend's hair and had to get it it's been great for me and I HATE shampoos
Nairobi Moisturizing Shampoo. Its really good for detangling and moisturizing. The smell is great too. You can only buy it at their website, unless you are a licensed cosmetologist.