So are you having your fantasies fulfilled by your DH/SO? If yes then was the spark just there? Was he into what you wanted? Or did you have to tell him and if you did was it easy/hard?
Yes! We have to tell them what we want
Be very vocal and if that is too embarrassing, just show them hands on what you want. Schedule evenings with him when you are the boss and take the lead so that he gets to know all your needs and wants. Give him a chance to make you happy!
Yes! We have to tell them what we want
Be very vocal and if that is too embarrassing, just show them hands on what you want. Schedule evenings with him when you are the boss and take the lead so that he gets to know all your needs and wants. Give him a chance to make you happy!
Ditto, they actually like it when you tell take control!
Some ones got to have advice for me! Are those things normal when you're being intimate with a man???I enjoy it..but he some times thinks it's boring. But he wants to give me pearl necklaces or jewelry and I think that is dusgusting or he'll want to change our "placements" to ones that I already know are going to be uncomfortable or hurt and he gets frustrated when I say no...am I wrong?
I enjoy it..but he some times thinks it's boring. But he wants to give me pearl necklaces or jewelry and I think that is dusgusting or he'll want to change our "placements" to ones that I already know are going to be uncomfortable or hurt and he gets frustrated when I say no...am I wrong?
I enjoy it..but he some times thinks it's boring. But he wants to give me pearl necklaces or jewelry and I think that is dusgusting or he'll want to change our "placements" to ones that I already know are going to be uncomfortable or hurt and he gets frustrated when I say no...am I wrong?
he's always asking to do that! I told him I would let him if he let me probe his back entrance first (not that I want to)I don't think you're wrong. Everyone has differn't feelings about sex, and he should respect yours enough not to make you uncomfortable.
On the other hand...Maybe you can warm up to his suggestions?? I try to be as open as I can with my SO. We tried the pearl thing b4-it was more for him visually, but it was nothing to call home about. By "placements" do you mean the backdoor?
he's always asking to do that! I told him I would let him if he let me probe his back entrance first (not that I want to)
But besides that, he wants me to turn my body in akward ways and bend in unflattering positions I don't want to do especially with the lights on!
he's always asking to do that! I told him I would let him if he let me probe his back entrance first (not that I want to)
But besides that, he wants me to turn my body in akward ways and bend in unflattering positions I don't want to do especially with the lights on!
HA HA HA!!! @ the bolded...you crazy! That's basically saying "never" because you know 90% of men (strait men ) wouldn't let you go there. In terms of the back door....been there done that....won't do it again.....IT HURTS LIKE HE**!! I know some women who like that whole thing after you get used to it, but I cant get over the painful part. IMO: He needs to get over it and move on!!
I'll tell him in a second and if he still cant get it right then i have no problem saying "get off me".
I see no one wanted to touch that one lol..anyway update as if you care, I talked to him about it and we're trying to fix that situation. This evening wasn't so bad
Sui Topi said:alot of this stuff I get from the media degrading women makes me feel kind of weird when I want to do extra things...
I see no one wanted to touch that one lol..anyway update as if you care, I talked to him about it and we're trying to fix that situation. This evening wasn't so bad
nah, i get what you're saying. i feel the same way, sometimes.
and, off topic, but I LOVE SAILOR SATURN! she was my favorite sailor... i used to love that show! ahh your avatar brings me back