I really want to relax my own hair. well, actually I just want to relax the front/top so I can have more versatility with my half wigs. anyway, i want to know a relaxer that is less likely to cause damage. the last relaxer i used was mizani no lye sensitive scalp back in november. also, can you go from no-lye to lye? i forgot. and creme of nature is out for me, my hair hates all those products. I'm curious about the phytorelaxer. The one time I tried to self relax was with precise and when I finished my hair was almost just as nappy as it was before I started. Thanks for your responses!