wow, rosebud!! nyambura is exactly right... your scalp sure sounds alot like mine. the only thing i've never gotten is the boils. everything else i can identify with. i also use prescription-strength Nizoral. it works really well with the Creme of Nature. i also did it that way to save money. now i do it that way with the KeraCare Detangling shampoo. /images/graemlins/smile.gif
what did the doctor tell you was the specific diagnosis of your scalp problem? i've had mine for over 20 years. i've heard everything from allergies, fungus, seborrhea, psoriasis, contact dermatitis to "nervous scalp." that last one still cracks me up. in fact, my scalp is shivering and shaking as i type this...
anyway, i definitely think that your scalp can benefit from the use of oils. in addition to rosemary, i also added lavender, meadowfoam and palmarosa essential oils to a carrier oil (usually jojoba). i started doing this while i had the braids, but i kept doing it after i took them down. i also added naiouli EO for hot oil treatments. it was a little smelly so i couldn't leave it on.
i don't know that the relaxer is the culprit. i don't think the doctors could tell you either. it could really be anything. when mine started, i was completely natural. and i've never noticed that it was worse after a retouch. in fact, the chemical would actually clear all the huge flakes off.
what was the name of the other prescription that the doctor gave you? i'm also using Derma-Smooth. it's working really well. i left it on overnight one night last week, and my scalp is clear right now. i'm gonna start doing that once a week to get rid of it.
i really think that instead of styling your hair all the time, you should wear it in a bun or some other low- or non-manipulation style. all that washing and tugging and wrapping is taking its toll, i'm sure. you should just save that for every now and then at least until you can get your scalp under control and can start washing once a week. that's how often i wash now. it used to be twice a week when my scalp was at its worst. poor thing... every other day??? dang...
let me know what that other prescription is. is it something like Clobetasol Propionate? if so, that's like a steroid. with extended use, the body gets used to it. eventually steroids just stop working. i have some, but i only use it occasionally on my scalp. believe it or not, i also have this crap in and behind my ears. so i usually just use it there. /images/graemlins/frown.gif
oh yeah, what were you using to oil your scalp?
i hope you can get it under control.
adrienne