Saying goodnight and good morning

I'm like that with my good nights. Good mornings aren't as important... probably bc I'm not a morning person :/
 
I like to hear both from SO. I feel some kind of way when we don't say good night, we definitely have to say good morning if that happens.
 
I don't care either way actually. Funny though, last night I felt the need to send a goodnight text and felt like I was forcing it cuz he KNOWS that's not my style.
I answered the phone 'good morning' Yeah...not me.
My ex was a big goodmorning man. It urked me especially since I'm not a morning person lol
 
Both are very important to me. Normally I send the good morning text with a blessing on a good day and at night we talk on the phone and then I may still send a gud night text and sometimes he will text first.
 
i'm not a morning person, but i try my best to make it my business to say it to my children and my SO. i say Hey in the morning or How Are You?
 
This was never a big deal to me, but it drives DH crazy if I don't. I have learned (even though if I am really tired or cranky I sometimes forget) to say good morning, even if I just grumble it. Otherwise, he'll say something.
 
It's not a big deal to me, but I've learned that it is for him. Last night I went to bed really early because I didn't feel so great. This morning he told me he was "bothered" that I didn't call or text to say good night. Oops. :look:.
 
Its not at all important for me to say either to anyone, or for anyone to say it to me. I get annoyed when someone talks to me when I want to be ignored, I'm weird like that.

The only time I say it is when one of my male friends text it to me in the morning, which isn't quite often. He's the only one that says it to me, so I say/text it back to not be rude, but it's really not my thing.
 
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He says good morning either by text or IM (on workdays). I say goodnight by text. Everyday. It's a rare occasion when we don't do this. Even when we're mad. In the last 6 mos, we may have missed 7 days total between us.
 
LOL I'm like you. I'm obsessed with not loosing those simple things and they make me happy.
I don't know if I'm right but I think it's because between my parents and in my family too many of those things got lost along the way during the years and the result was not pleasant. So now that I'm an adult I'm hypersensitive about preserving them every single day!
 
Old school here....I was taught to say both especially 'Good morning'. It was considered rude not to.
 
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